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handjob: how do guys like it??
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ive been with my bf for a while now and hes fingered me and it would be nice to do the same for him. the only problem is, i dont really know how he'll like it. do i do it hard or soft, quick or slowly? and where is the best place to conncentrate on? anyone like to share with me good ways to get a guy off?
thanks, daisychaingirl xxx :angel:
thanks, daisychaingirl xxx :angel:
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All guys are different. If he wants it faster he will tell you.
I agree the best thing you can do is ask him. After all he will be the expert in that area himself.
i hate it when some one does that to me
but just be gentle and let him show u how he likes it then work from
there, also play with his balls too I love that
My bf also loves me playing with his balls. he also loves me touching the part between his balls and his bum (dunno what its called) drives him mad though.
Surely not THE Daisychain...?
I am sure she was daisychainTHING though ...
what do you mean THE daisychain...? its just a name, im not gunna put my real one on here am i.
There was a poster on here called daisychainthing a while back. However, she has since disappeared.
not me, the first time i was on this site ever was about a week ago. i guess its just a common name.
Also when it comes to the question of lube or not, you're probably going to need something. My boyfriend and I like making it even more intimate so we throw the lube on the counter and end up using either his spit or mine.
yeah lub is good, try getting the one with the heat/tingly sensation.
It's quite a turn off when a girl starts pulling at you like there's no tomorow.
Every guy, like every girl, is different. So it'd be best to have him show you how he likes it first, with his hand over yours.
Also, don't be afraid to be a little creative with hand jobs. I do this move in hj's where I lightly change my hand movement in the middle of a pump (ie, if my thumb is facing me, then during an upwards move I change without letting go of him so that my thumb is facing him). called 'twisting' which personally i've seen to have quite a good effect... not too much though and be gentle while you do this.
As others have said if he's uncut, make sure you don't pull down all the way, I did once and he almost jumped out of his skin.
So yeah, just go with the flow, and let him show you/tell you what he likes best.