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do they love you more?
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do you ever feel that you girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband loves you more than you love them?
is it a problem for you? what do you feel about it?
is it a problem for you? what do you feel about it?
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sniffle.
*cuddles*
The list is endless ;<
Yes.
i know i love him, but sometimes i feel like he loves me more. we've been together 10 months (all but a few days) and i cant imagine not being with him.
did it bother you? did you question if you even loved him at all? im so confused!
You're probably just a bit overwhelmed with your situation Chelle, tell J how you feel, a problem shared is a problem halved
i told him, and now he doesnt want to see me
fair point i think.
also, with you being out of work at the minute i guess do you maybe feel a bit bored and frustrated in general?
so are you saying, thats it? its finished and cant be revived?
I really don't know. I'm being realistic.
You said you loved each other at around 2 months, got engaged and holidays all in 10 months.
I'm in maybe a month of mine, and I'm nowhere near seeing him everyday, thinking I love him. It'd kill my sanity to have it all compressed. I think because it's it's your first big relationship you flung in the deep end despite you saying you wouldn't.
And I'm not thinking you are horrible for doing this, when you meet someone for the first time who meets your boundaries, your thinking it's AMAZING, and you pile yourself into that person.
But it's came and bit you in the bum. You got bored, you didn't want him because there was nothing to look forward to except the grown up stuff, and you weren't ready for that. There was no new innocent level to climb to.
You'd done it all.
i think you're wrong. im not saying it in a horrible way or anything so i apologise if it comes out like that.
its not my first big relationship. ive had a 15 month serious relationship previously. and im not bored of J, i never said i was.
to be honest, i dont even seem to feel the way i felt wen i originally posted this thread anymore. i think it was hormones messing me about.
i do love him, and i cant wait for the grown up stuff to come along, i dont think im as innocent as people seem to think i am!