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I cant cum inside her
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Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 months and we're always having sex, the problem is i can never cum inside her, i very rarely do when im getting hand jobs and never during blow jobs, and it s with every gf ive ver had, my mind wanders or i get so excited that i think im gonna cum that i tense up....what can i do to fix this?
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on the other hand you could be getting too worked up about wanting to cum that you just dont, could just try not thinking about it and thinking about how good it feels instead
Maybe imagine that you have a gun held to your head and you have to screw your best mate up his arse and cum or you die .... then you'll cum!
Ok - this is getting silly ...
what the fuck, your sitting fucking this chick and you drift off to another land. when your leaving please hand your penis in at the door.
Some people find it hard to orgasm, but the only performance problem that's talked about is coming too quickly. You will find it a lot easier to orgasm if you don't masturbate, for some reason masturbation makes you less sensitive and slows down orgasm. Just as those who come too quickly shoukld masturbate more, those who don't come should masturbate less.
Many men don't come from blowjobs anyway.
Re-assure your gf that it isn't her, and that you just find it hard. Wank less, relax more. Once you do achieve orgasm inside her then you'll find it a lot easier. I suspect quite a bit of the problem is worry.
I have come have come across guys that say that and but I have always risen to the challenge ... so far, so good!
They can be nice for a small amount of time and then become dull and boring :banghead:
But the problem of you not being able to cum? See a doctor