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Have you ever been with a person in a relationship??
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I havent, but know alot of my mates who have gone with married men and stuff.
My mate went with a lad who she thought was single, but when she found out he wasnt she still used to see him!!
Have any of you been with a person who was in a relationship? Are you still with them?! How did you feel?...... knowing that the person was cheating on their partner?
Sorry for all the questions! I'm just curious!
My mate went with a lad who she thought was single, but when she found out he wasnt she still used to see him!!
Have any of you been with a person who was in a relationship? Are you still with them?! How did you feel?...... knowing that the person was cheating on their partner?
Sorry for all the questions! I'm just curious!
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Yes. It was a mistake, I lost a friend out of it. So when I did the same thing a second time I must have been doubly stupid.
The experience depends a lot on how the cheating party reacts. When she enjoyed it I enjoyed it, when she felt guilty I felt like a proper bastard.
My mates' girlfriends have a habit of falling for me. Charm or something.
Yeah, if you wanna put it like that
Never again.
The lyrics of the verse (not the chorus) to the song 'Don't cha' by The Pussycat Dolls sums up the situation.
nobody is forcing the cheater to cheat with the 3rd wheel...
haha i love that..3rd wheel
Same ere, I always like to think 'treat others how you'd like to be treated' I would hate it if I knew my fella had cheated on me, or even thought about it.
That's not the same question though is it?
I wouldn't if the girlfriend was a mate though. I do have some morals
Ilora x
You naughty little minx!
"I don't blame you, he's the one with the girlfriend".
Hm. I think it's utter bollocks, but she seems to believe it so I'm not complaining.
Chris cheated on me with my best mate once.
I wouldn't do it again though as not worth the hassle. I'm a :angel: now :yeees:
I can relate to this completely, it was a bad idea when I did it, and it still will be a bad idea any time I even contemplate doing anything with one of my mates girlfriends.
I lost one of my best mates ( understandably ) , but he did forgive me as we were both very drunk ( no excuse I know ), we aren't exactly on bad terms, but we're not on good.
The fact that I basically took his previous girlfriend aswell ( complete accident, she just fell for me in a bad way, and kind of became obsessive, like to add I did nothing with her either ) doesn't even begin to portray what he must have been feeling after he found out about that one..
So the logistics of what I just said : Its a bad idea
One of my flat mates brothers came to stay during first year of uni, he was gorgeous, and a bit of a bad boy. I flirted a little which my mate noticed and told me he had a girlfriend so i stopped but when he continued to chat me up I ignored the fact and if I'm honest it made me feel good about myself that this really fit guy wanted me even tho he had a gf. At the time. The next day i was glad i didnt sleep with him (could have) but I didnt really feel too bad for his gf as i didnt know her, now i do though. At the time i hadnt yet had a proper relationship, now i have i realise how shit what we both did was on her.
Second time i didnt know he had a gf until i met her the next day! He was a mate of a mate, i pulled him when out in a club and then he brought his gf to the pub with us the following day. I felt like telling her...but chickened out.
Strange, but it doesn't bother me. If their relationship isn't enough for them, well, it's ain't my problem.