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Finally Over.
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So we finally did the right thing and split up. Thing is,whilst I'm very very upset and it's killing me to see him even look at another girl, I'm also quite relieved.
There's a night out on Saturday we might both be going to and I'm not sure wether to go and put myself through the agony of seeing him with other girls or go out with a friend from work and imagine what he's doing.
Any advice much appreciated
There's a night out on Saturday we might both be going to and I'm not sure wether to go and put myself through the agony of seeing him with other girls or go out with a friend from work and imagine what he's doing.
Any advice much appreciated
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I think you're forgetting two very important things.
1. You both decided this and you will both feel the pain whether it be now of later - so dont worry about him looking at other girls high chance is he'll spend the whole night looking at you anyway!
2. You are now entitled to eye up people too. Yeah he's single but so are you! look forward to having fun and being able to be when and where you want to be...
I see your point but I know the response I would get would be "Yes,but you let me go so it's none of your business what I do. If you don't like it,look elsewhere."
He assume's I'll be out kissing other guys by Saturday anyway, he thinks I have that little respect for what we had. He thinks I'm a slut, which is how he will justify his actions.
But then again, try and forget him (I know its hard) but go out and enjoy yourself, you a singleton now so you can go and get some nice top totty! :thumb:
If telling him it's making you uncomfortable won't work, then don't torture yourself sweetheart.
You are both in the same position and you both are going to move on.
You cannot say to a person stop looking at him/her, personal freedom?
You are just having a hard time adjusting and becoming used to the change, it's not easy.
Sorry if it offends but thats my point of view.