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In general i reverse the roles. Would I be happy if my gf was flirting with my brother and his best mate (who i know or suspect fancy her)? The answer is no I wouldnt and because of that I wouldnt do it if i was thinking of doing it.
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
Also, i wouldn't like it if the roles were reversed like city_boy sed. Flirting can b fun, just make sure you don't hurt anyone!
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
Who the hell am i?
Well good luck with ignoring your admirers <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
Alternitavely, take them aside when they do and just ask them nicely "listen, my gf is getting a bit upset by you seeming to get close to me. it would be nice if you maybe just kept your distance for the time being."
summin like that. i'll look in the morning to see if there's anythign more worthwhile to put. probably not, hmmm...i wonder if this makes sesne, since i typed it all with my eyes closed.
I don't live to work, I work to live and I live at the weekends. I'm the last of the big time drinkers.
Defintiely keep it in a jokey manner otherwise u cud really piss them off. But if they still keep doin it then i guess you'd just have to tell them outright!
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
But if it's in a jokey manner, they may not get what you're trying to say. Talk to them seriously, and just ask them to back off. Why would they get pissed off? If they like you - and if they are some sort of friend - they will respect your wishes and back off.
I don't live to work, I work to live and I live at the weekends. I'm the last of the big time drinkers.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
Dont judge me, LOVE ME!
interesting philosophy, whizzy. question though, how is it really revenge when while one man does suffer, another is getting what he wants? wouldn't make more sense not to sleep with any of them if you wanted to get back at them?
not making fun or anything, just curious as to how u decided that constant cheating is a form of revenge.
(but they dont)
Who the hell am i?
Dont judge me, LOVE ME!
Who the hell am i?
But it's not so okay when ur significant other is doing it, is it?
So if you're doing it "harmlessly", ask your love one how they feel about and if it does bother them, then maybe you should put an end to it, if you love them.
And if you see it happen from your loved one, you gotta let them know it bothers you, otherwise a lot of resentment is going to build up.
I guess my advice is just to be cognizant of what you are doing all the time because everything has an effect on your relationship, whether it's "harmless" or not.
its fun..
its easy..
its even better wen ur bf doesnt find out..
from past experience..
ive got a boyfrend! weve been 2gether 4 about 5 months, i still flirt wen im not with him. im sure he does it aswell.
I just make sure it doesnt go further than flirting. coz i love him!!