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what shall i do? forget her of woo her

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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i met the most amazing girl on holiday and i cant get her out my mind. i talk to her virtually every night for about 2 hours and then i find it hard to get to sleep cause i cant stop thinking about her. we flirt loads on the phone like what we want to do to each other and i love it. we did everything really apart from sex and i want her! she lioves in wales and i love in london. do u think it is worth me going to visit her? she had a boyfriend when w were on holiday and she phoned me up one day saying that she broke up with her boyfriend, was i suppose to congratulate her or was that a come and get me sought of thing. is it worth me getting involved with her or just stupid, im considering going to wales at university so i can see her! but then what happens if we break up! she is bloody sexy so is it just a lust thing, im not sure but i know she is the girl i want to lose my virginity with. WHAT DO I DO?!?!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Play it cool. However much you want her, DON'T going making any huge life-altering decisions like that. The first and most important thing you have to do is make sure she feels the same. If you don't want to approach that area directly, then make some joke about her going out with another lad and forgetting about or something!

    If she feels as strongly as you do [lust or not] then it's definitely worth suggesting the two of you meeting up. See what she thinks about coming london? If she's just as enthusiastic [or she might well have a reasonable excuse!] then forgetting her would be a big mistake! It sounds as if it's a bit more than lust though, I mean, you can find the whole package sexy sometimes! If you really can't stop thinking about her then tell her, providing you think she's into you just as much <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    If you don't think it's mutual [but 2 hours on the phone every night sounds like it is] then don't call her as much, and try and find another girl who preferably lives near to you. Just don't go sleeping with her until you're sure about Ms.Holiday! Good luck and let us know what happens <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    *|* Chica *|*

    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try really sapeaking to her about how you both feel. If you do anything really major you want to know that you both feel the same way, before commiting yourself. BIG distance between Wales and London, you really would have to be sure.

    Going to university in Wales sounds like a good option if you're going there next year, just make sure she's not the only reason. Love or lust? You're the only one who can answer that, cause if its just her body then commiting yourself for 3 years could be the wrong decision.

    Having said that, if you talk to her for hours every night, it sounds like something that could last. How long have you felt like this about her, months or years?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well she phones me alot as well so i think she would feel the same way but i only met her on holday this summer. she might think i was abit obsessed but im not cause she is the one who phones me more. we joked about me moving to wales and stuff but we are both 2 young to for me to move to wales, i dont think that would be good. maybe in a few year if i am still in touch with her. she is also 2 years younger than me so she might go off with another bloke so i am not sure whether or not she is really commited. i am definately going to visit her though! i said to her she she should come and stay in my villa in spain where we met this summer but she would not be allowed i dont think. i treated it as a joke really but she asked her mum and stuff so it sounded like she really wanted to! well keep those posts comin
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