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I went out with someone for a year and a half. It was my longest relationship. We argued a lot over all kinds of things and broke up as a result recently. I have started seeing someone else, but not exactly seriously. I have fun with them and like them, but not to the same extent. Maybe its a bit forced. I thought it would make me move on, but it hasnt yet. I guess its just a rebound. I find myself going to places with them that my ex introduced me to. Its wierd. Do you think i should continue with this and maybe it will work? Or let it slide? Maybe i should give it more time...People who know me say i should go for it, that it will take my mind off things!
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My advice would be to follow your heart.
I think you've answered your own question Madame Fairy. Perhaps it would be wise to have some time on your own for now, to clear your head and get yourself back on your feet. :yes:
i'll emphasise probably, just to be on the safer side
I got talkin to a lad when I was out, my mate knew him, I was talkin to him which was fine but he asked me to meet up and my mates were eggin me on, but I knew its not what I wanted so I was honest and explained...
Honestly chick if its rebound then get out now, give yourself time to grieve over your ex cuz if you dont and things go pear shaped with this other fella then you'll feel even worse! Honest Ive seen it happen to people!
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hehe I know the feelin bout bein confused! Ive got loadsa stuff goin on with my ex about whether we should get back together or not?!?! nightmare! so I might join ya on that trip out the country!
Anyway if u wana chat pm me..
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Cheers! One thing about ringing him...it did remind me how much he can annoy me! The sad thing is hes taking his time returning my things, blatently just to annoy me. Im going to unlease some anger in the pool hall
Well they wernt boring or unattractive in my case. Simply screwed up,immature and in need of therapy! Yer 1 1/2 years of that is enough to last a lifetime! I really didnt realise what i was in for! Guess you have to learn from your mistakes! I am most definately avoiding men in gay clubs from now on, not that im homophobic! Just have a bad memory from one now! I wasnt setting out to get a gay boyfriend! Guess i should have thought about it more carefully at the beginning! If i could id turn back the clock i would never have been there in the first place! It can be hard to let go of people sometimes, even when you know its not right! Oh well! I want something simple and fun!
love is blind. u cant choose who u fall in love with
Thats definately true!