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in the park?
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im 14 + my b/f is 15 ive had sex once b4 in a forest put it was really uncomfortable + very painful (altho it did turn me on) now my current b/f wants 2 have sex in a park i dnt know wot 2 do will it jus b uncomfortable? so should i or should i not. PLS HELP IM SOOOO STRESSED.
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I prefer sex somewhere warm like a beach with the waves rather than a forest with weirdos walking their dogs! :>
Oh and read this: http://www.thesite.org/sex/general_sex/risky_sex.html
Have fun
i think u're takin the mick... or you're being sarcastic... but are you really serious?
gettin bruised is no fun, so walk prepared, but second thoughts are often useful, if you're uncomfortable with it, don't do it, its probably a warning....
On the down you are probably going to feel really uncomfortable and the sex will not be very good as you will be nervous.
on the up the opposite could be true - the nerves could guive an adrenaline buzz and make the sex excellent <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> the thrill of doin g it and hopewfully not getting caught!
but basically depends ho uncomfoirtable or worried you are about it - whatever happens don't be forced in to anything you dont want to do yourself
its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif">
But anyway, I'll assume you're a lot more mature than my sister (she's a bit behind the times). I agree with what's been said here, if you're not comfortable with it then don't do it. Especially as you've only been with him 3 weeks (I hope I got that part right). Leave it for a while, at least, until you're happier about doing it.
Mags
xx
If your both ready it doesnt matter how long / short a time its been but don't rush it.
Mags
xx
look, it shows ur lack of brains cuz u even brought this up...
sex is an act of love, not a pre-planned date in the fucking park. it's not like "lets go to the park and have sex". it's not even "lets to the park for a walk and maybe i can get sex".
it should be one day u find yourselves out, walking home from a party, kissin, cuddling, walk through the park, sit on a bench, get close, have sex, love it and fall asleep in each others arms
obviously thats a fairy tale, but sex shouldn't be planned- what's special about it then?
hope u c my point
have sex wherever but if ur b/f is sayin stuff like that he's using u for sex and doesn't want a relationship
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have sex wherever but if ur b/f is sayin stuff like that he's using u for sex and doesn't want a relationship
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well thanxs talk bout boost my confidence