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am I a dominatrix?
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okay, this is a serious question here, okay?
I find I'm kind of strange, I can't really get turned on unless I'm dominating him. Ya know, teasing him, tying him up, blind folds, spanking, ect. I don't have the money to buy these things yet, but when I do have the money (and a place where no one will find these things!) I'd like to own some handcuffs, blind folds, a strap-on, and a few other things. Sex toys, ya know? Anyways, I've been wondering about this for a while, because I can't really get off on oral unless I'm tied up and blind folded, so am I a dominatrix? or just weird? :eek2: :crazyeyes
I find I'm kind of strange, I can't really get turned on unless I'm dominating him. Ya know, teasing him, tying him up, blind folds, spanking, ect. I don't have the money to buy these things yet, but when I do have the money (and a place where no one will find these things!) I'd like to own some handcuffs, blind folds, a strap-on, and a few other things. Sex toys, ya know? Anyways, I've been wondering about this for a while, because I can't really get off on oral unless I'm tied up and blind folded, so am I a dominatrix? or just weird? :eek2: :crazyeyes
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yes, a little strange, but not obscenely so! many many people are the same. I'm sure there's plenty of info on the net if you (carefully! ) search
A prostitute??
ye ist not that abnormal for some girls to be like that
most girls aint- and ive tried to encourage some of the girls ive been with to try it out been a dominatrix but they couldnt so yeah people do like them-
Weird is just a manner of taste- like if I went into some of my sexual tastes some would be weird but i find them normal. Anyways some emn out there like that hing- and f they dont fuck them and have fun tieing them up!
18, why? I did mean dominatrix in the acting/playing sense, not the occupation sense. In that sense, I'm more of a scientist. :razz:
I just find it somewhat weird. I grew up in a very religious home, and have been told various times that people who like this stuff are perverted, and just about every other negative thing under the sun. :banghead: try as I might, I can't get those thoughts out of my head.
That could help explain why you feel this way - I have been brought up in a Catholic family and always had "no sex before marriage" drummed into me, yet since losing my virginity I have become more and more filthy minded (and not afraid to show it), and sex is almost constantly on my mind. I also have a fantasy to have sex outside a church or cathedral, and I'm sure that's a way of going against everything I've previously had to repress.
Nothing wrong with it.
Religious headcases eh - just ignore them.
Haemosexuals, the real vampires.
I wondered that.
Ah, Religion etc... whilst not having religion drummed into me... (Every time we've taken my dad to an old church or cathedral to look round, there has been a storm. No shit either. Really), I have been bought up to beleive any sexual activites out of the norm are bad. Which means, I feel dirty thinking about it. It sucks.
Just go for it. Hell, the feeling of it being taboo can be a bit of a turn on. Trust me.
lol