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Shy girl, how do i get her?
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This girl i met was one hell of a sexy bitch, and i felt bending her over right there and then, in pizza hut. But anyway, i got on really well with her and all her friends was saying that she liked me.Then i saw her the next night at this party and we were doing the standard flirting procedure. She wouldnt pull me because she "didnt know me well enough" she had only ever pulled like 2 other guys before. i then txt her a few days later cause she said "txt me" asking her to go out in a group of people. then she said that she just wanted to be "friends." I was shocked because at the party she heard i wanted to pull her and she told she would but wanted to get to know me. I was puzzled by this sudden change of feeling. Then one of her friends, also one of my close friends said that she had asked how far i had gone. she then proceeded on telling her that i, lets put it this way, "Had gone the distance" she may have been put off by this. She is a very shy girl but she soooooo fine and a great personality to boot. waz uuppppppppp with that?
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Take time. If you really like her then you'll be better off becoming her friend and getting to know her properley before making your move. She may feel threatened by you having more experience than her, or she feels she may let herself go. Be patient.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
So if you want us to give contructive advice, I would suggest you start to respect what we say and what we do.
If you don't like the way this site works, FUCK OFF! Ok.
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
I think you should have some respect for chris too! However I was a bit concerened the way chris refers to girls as a posession (see title)
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
Thanks the the support brokenheart <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
i totally agree turtle. as a woman and a feminist i find your attitude concerning and offensive. i would also like to highlight turtles last sentence (above) and say, that is exactly what you can do.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
Leave him alone Turtle..for me? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"> You know how I hate fighting, and it's not as if he's Blood Golem or anything.
*sits cross-legged and sings*
"All you need is love, love...love is all you need"
I'm going to go and shoot someone now.
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
Yes, I've left whatshisface alone. You're right, he's not bad. Just if he could show a little respect for the regulars, girls, whoever, then it would be much appreciated.
DM
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
but back to the topic... i suggest you just try and get to know her as a friend, and then maybe ask her out once you know her better, as that is what she said in the first place.
good luck anyway! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
i didn't actually mean it in a vindictive way - its a possibility isn't it?
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
*Chica bites Turtle's leg*
You fiend! Scoundrel! Scallywag! Bounder!
Damn you Turtle, I'll never forgive you for this!
*sits in the corner and cries*
Sorry Chris, am I going off topic? *lol* Sorry, couldn't resist that one.
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
OWWW!!! I'm sorry chica. there there.
*gives chica a hug n kiss* now smile and cheer up! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.