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first time @ 15
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Ive been havin dis thing wiv aguy 4 about 2 months now and hes gaggin 4 sex. Althou i really wnt 2 do it im not sure if i want 2 wiv him plus im only 15 and hav only got off wiv blokes b4. Wat do u suggest?
Lol thanx guys!
Lol thanx guys!
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I think that u should not let him pressure u into havin sex with him. Ure still joung and if ure not sure u wanna have sex and sex with HIM , DONT !!!!!!!
I hope this helps a bit ...
Freedom of Religion means any religion !
never let anyone pressure you in to doing something that you dont want to, and that includes yourself. if you dont want to have sex with him, then dont. but dont tell him that to his face (he might take it the wrong way!).
you are the only one who can know if you are really ready, or if he really is 'the right one'. your age is a tad irrelevant - i know people who had sex at 13 with the right person, and loved it, and those that didnt have sex until 19, but did it with the wrong person and hated it.
all in all: the choice is yours. but, although modern society tends to dismiss sex as a triviality, bear in mind that losing your virginity is something you can only do once, so you should make sure you're doing the right thing.
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum
If you’re under pressure to have sex from your boyfriend then he properly isn't interested in a proper relationship and could well be using you.