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Right well I just got a new bf and he ain't that good luking but he's really sweet so ive given him a go. Im sleeping at his after a gig in november and he's on about sharing his bed, and im a bit nervous to be honest with you coz I dont really feel ready for sex and his rents wud be in which wud be awfully embarrassing... then agen he is rather shy and i dont think he would try anything but what should I do if he does?
I dont know what to do, heeeeeeeelp!
I dont know what to do, heeeeeeeelp!
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I slept in the same bed as my gf on our first date, I couldn't believe my luck. However all we did was cuddle, which in my opinion it is a lot better to be cuddled all night by your gf.
neway like i said nothin really happened cos he knew i wasnt ready. We'd spoken about sex together and that i didnt feel ready at the time and things went great. If you feel that its too early in your relationship at the moment to start having a deep and meaningful with him over sex, then wait until closer to the gig, then jus explain how you feel. You never kno, by then u may even feel ready.
Good Luck
How old are you by the way?
If he does try something that your not ready for just say sorry and explain that your not ready - a bf who cares will understand that!
its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif">
if he's any sort of a nice boyfriend he'll just want you to be happy and comfortable
you never know, he may well be having exactly the same doubts as you are