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Do you think it's ok to have sex with someone you don't love?
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Society doesn't agree, but as far as I'm concerned it's OK - as long as its a coercion free informed choice.
For me the feelings with each type are very different, but usually good.
Having sex with someone to shut them up tends to be bad.
As long as you dont tell someone that you do love them youve done nothing wrong.
love and peace to you all. xxx
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
i havent ever had sex with anyone i dont love , so i cant say from experience. but as long as you both know the score about it being a bit of fun and as logn as nothing like whizzy's experience happens, then i dont see theres anything wrong! some people hate the idea of sex without love.. but as long as both people know what theyre doing it for and no one gets hurt i dont really see the problem.
j9
PS I suppose that's as opposed to creational sex lol
I call it casual sex, as in, a casual arrangement, know what i mean?
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I reckon it's right to enjoy yourself and be careful at the same time. If I only had sex with people I loved, I'd be still a virgin too I suppose <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> 'Cos true love only happens 1-2-3 times in your life and you might only meet your true love when you are old and wrinkly or something...
And how are you supposed to get that experience that everybbody wants if you don't practise it with anyone?
At first I felt that sex linked me with my partner emotionally and I'd suffer if he ignored me later <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> but now my attitude has changed. So girls we have to watch out!
anyway back to topic
i don't know, when it comes to sex my ideas are fairly old fashioned. but saying that i've never actually ever been propositioned (even my ex refused to even let me kiss her i later found out why and will never forgive the bitch). so i don't know how i'd react if it should ever happen. but i do know even if i did sleep with someone i didn't love i'd still be quite picky i wouldn't just sleep with anyone (unlike most blokes) i suppose you could say that when it comes to sex and love and all that i think very much like a girl
How come you call her your ex-girlfriend if you haven't even kissed properly? It doesn't make sense
I'm flattered, but I didn't ask the question, it was Anele.
j9
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I've been wondering when it's actually suitable to call someone your b/f or g/f... After your second date? After your first shag? After you both talk and agree on this?
Or when your mates label you two an item? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I only call some one my partner when we have agreed to be exclusive and have talked about the fact that we are together and having a relationship.
Sleeping with someone doesnt neccesarily mean you are together and if i was going out with all the guy my mates labelled us as an item i would have hundreds of boyfriends!
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