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Just been dumped
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ive just been dumped by the love of my life and i really cant get over her, i really want to get back out with her, but i have a feeling she really hates me. What shall i do i still love her
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Just...give it time kid. You'll be ok...if a bit bitter in later life
Hugs
you wont believe it now but you will feel better
Getting back with someone who dumped you is not worth the hassle. If she did take you back she would only be with you while she waited for someone she likes more to come along. Why prolong the agony, are you ever gonna be sure how she realy feels if she has dumped you in the past? If you just wanna play along then thats up to you, but dont get too hung up on her cos it wont last.
It seems simple from the outside. Take a step back and think about how you would advise a mate with the same problem.
is that a good or a bad thing?!
Well, that depends.
If you're seeing her wanting to be friends as your opening to get back together with her then it's a bad thing.
Well you see sometimes, when people break up, the person doing the breaking up says "we will still be friends". They don't really mean this, of course, they just say it as an attempt to take some of the edge off the fact that they have just broken up with you. (Of course in some cases it is possible that they do really want to be friends, but even in those cases it wont happen until later on after the break up time has really panned out)
Of course, some people take the words "i want to be friends" and convert them in their own heads to mean "i want to get back with you". This is bad.
ive even contemplated suicide for fucks sake
1 12 pack of heiniken
2 10 bags of weed(white widow) at 2 buds per reg sized fag paper
Time is a great healer. Its true
But right now I know life sucks so surrond yourself with stuff to make yourself better whatever that might be but try not to turn to the drink.
Phoenix
Phoenix