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With or without????
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Im in quite a dilema at the mo.
Ive been with my boyf for 1yr 3months (lol how sad i cud prob tell u down 2the second.. ive got it bad!!)
Anyway, lol.
We've always used a condom but he's had the snip so im not sure if we still need to or not. He's been tested for STDs etc and they all came out neg. It sort of freaked me out when i was told that the op can reverse itself and lets just say i dont want to end up with a kid just yet!
Do you guys think im being daft?... i think ive pretty much decided to try it without but i was also wondering if u guys know how accurate STD tests are?
Cheers!
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Ive been with my boyf for 1yr 3months (lol how sad i cud prob tell u down 2the second.. ive got it bad!!)
Anyway, lol.
We've always used a condom but he's had the snip so im not sure if we still need to or not. He's been tested for STDs etc and they all came out neg. It sort of freaked me out when i was told that the op can reverse itself and lets just say i dont want to end up with a kid just yet!
Do you guys think im being daft?... i think ive pretty much decided to try it without but i was also wondering if u guys know how accurate STD tests are?
Cheers!
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Burn baby burn!
Cheers.. he's not slept with any1 for abt 4 yrs b4 me so i presume the HIV test is ok.
I think im just making a mountain out of a molehill. Oh i dont know!!!
Tests for STD's don't cover the last three to six months of your life so unless he's had two tests you can't be sure.
And babies should be something you plan for not something that just happens.
That there
That's not me
He's only slept with me (+ yes i do know + believe him lol) in the last 5 yrs or so. So i think i can b sure.
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
That says it all.
That there
That's not me
If you would like the feeling of doing it natural but what to make sure you don't become pregnant, you could go on the pill to make sure your safe.
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