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Uni-Leave of absence
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Has anyone here taken a leave of absence from university? I've had a pretty tough year emotionally and physically, all stemming from me having rheumatoid arthritis, and my tutor mentioned taking a leave of absence as a possibility. I really wasn't sure about it, and I'm still not, but I'm really worried about how I'm going to do in my exams, and need to think about what to do if it doesn't go right.
My motivation is really low at the moment, but I don't know if having a year out would change any of that really, or if I'd still feel just the same when I got back. And it's not like I can guarentee I'll be in a better physical and emotional state next year, I could be better or worse or just the same, I just can't tell.
So yeah, any advice at all appreciated really, if you've taken a year out or know people who have, or were thinking about it and didn't....anybody really!
Thanks, Tates x
My motivation is really low at the moment, but I don't know if having a year out would change any of that really, or if I'd still feel just the same when I got back. And it's not like I can guarentee I'll be in a better physical and emotional state next year, I could be better or worse or just the same, I just can't tell.
So yeah, any advice at all appreciated really, if you've taken a year out or know people who have, or were thinking about it and didn't....anybody really!
Thanks, Tates x
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the good thing in your case about taking a leave of absence is the fact you are garenteed your place back next year. you dont need to do any exams, you dont have to worry about re-applying, it's easy.
so if you'll be in a better physical and emotional state next year, and feel your curent state will drastically effect your results, then purhaps a leave of absence would be a good idea :yes:
no uni related stress for a whole year, so you can recover, and be in top condition to start afresh next year...
Chances are that you'll be better rather than worse...
Good luck!
but i think you're in your first year, aren't you? so the same logic might not work.
things to consider though: if you're not at uni, what will you do? i find work infinitely more stressful and tiring than uni. you could just kick back, recuperate and not work, but it doesn't suit everyone. i think i'd just get bored, feel useless and get all depressed.
the other thing to consider is that if you leave now, you might never find the motivation to go back. would this bother you?
at the end of the day, you have to consider absolutely everything. then make the decision that's best for you. not what your tutors think, not what your family/friends think. what YOU think.
I know that if I do carry on the uni will do everything possible to help me, I took my exam today in a clinic type thing at one of the halls of residence, and it was really helpful, didn't have to start till I was ready, could take proper breaks etc, and got a private room, which was quite nice So that's another plus point, I know I'll get as much help as they can possibly give me, I just need to make sure I work hard on top of that too!
I'm in my second year, and have a year abroad next year...which could be postponed if necessary, but it would be nice if I didn't have to! I know what you mean Kaffrin, I couldn't cope with just doing nothing, but I also know that my body seriously struggles with proper work, I just about managed over Xmas but it wasn't easy, and probably wouldn't be the best thing for me right now. And also the whole motivation thing, that was one of my big worries, that I'll lose all motivation to come back
Sorry, this has turned into a massive essay, you can tell I'm in the middle of exams! I guess the best thing for me to do is wait for these exam results, and go from there. At least then I'll know whether struggling through is gonna work, or whether I do need to have another go at it when I've sorted myself out.
Thank you! Tates x