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first timer!blood,and faking it!!
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hiya guys!im new to this scene,so i was wounderin if u could give me a few pointers!
im a virgin,but my bf and i want to have sex,only natural!?!!im really scraed about a few things,first the pain!OUCH!and then im a bit scared about bleeding,how emabarrasing is that?so wot shud i do to reduce the embarrasment!and one other thing,i have had an orgasm b4,but i dont make noises,is that normal?!?!!and shud i try to fake noises to make him feel better?!!please help me guys!much appreciated.luv ya allxxxx
im a virgin,but my bf and i want to have sex,only natural!?!!im really scraed about a few things,first the pain!OUCH!and then im a bit scared about bleeding,how emabarrasing is that?so wot shud i do to reduce the embarrasment!and one other thing,i have had an orgasm b4,but i dont make noises,is that normal?!?!!and shud i try to fake noises to make him feel better?!!please help me guys!much appreciated.luv ya allxxxx
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as for making noises, well i dont make that many either, ive kind of had to be quiet anyway coz my parents are usually asleep in the next room or at least in the house! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> so no, youre not abnormal or anything, dont worry <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> oh and i dont think you should fake anything either.
if you want to sleep with your sex, dont be too scared about the pain or anything, it does go away, promise <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> just be careful and always use a condom, blah blah etc <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Burn baby burn!
dont wot ever u do fake it, not every1 makes alot of noise i sometimes do and sometimes dont. on here at the mo there is alot of talk about orgasms but i must worn u that u may not cum through penetration alone! if u do fake it he will think hes brill when maybe hes crap! so u both gotta be truthful with eachother, just tell eachother wot u like and stuff and hopefully all will go well!
good luck babes tell us all the goss! luv jo
me n my bf had only been 2gether 2 weeks. and 2 be honest i wish we had waited cos it may have made it more special. if the answer 2 the above questions is yes then maybe u r ready but if u wanna wait then do
i do feel comfortable with him,he is a gr8 guy, but he has slept with quite a few people.i dont want to dissapoint him,i havnt so far,but im really inexperienced wen it comes to actual sex.the foreplay so far has been gr8 to!and i do feel ready for sex,just a bit shy! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif">
thanx for all ur help guys!!
im 15.i know,a bit young.
id still like to know what the lads think of the bleeding thing,do u men mind havin blood on ur sheets,or do u understand about it all????
please inform me guys!! :P
Burn baby burn!
so maybe just hold off for a bit until u've got ur mind sorted about it.
And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
but from all reports ur above legal noise levels most the other time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif">
And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
u r bound 2 have worries bout it but as i have said b4 on here i lost my virginity at 14 and it was awful, i lost it 2 a lad who was using me but i was infatuated with him and i thought if i did it he would like me 2.
such a bad idea, it was awful, it really hurt he was unsimpathetic and all he wanted was sex. but when my present guy it werent like that at all, we only waited 2 weeks and when we did have sex it was kinda rushed, u know we did it then just put eastenders back on! lol. but all i really say is if u can realx infront of him n stuff then go for it but i suggest u wait a while.
ps who brought sex up u or him, is he older than u?
he is 17,im 15.it was kinda both of that bought it up.we were just talking about it,but he was the one that asked if i would sleep with him.i said i would,when i was ready.so there isnt any pressure.he knows that i can say no.and i will if it doesnt feel right.
he is a gr8 guy,and i think he understands!!
thanx again u guys.
whaaaaat?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif">
Burn baby burn!
i dunno, can't remember what i was thinking when i wrote that!
And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.