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Doin' nothin for me
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I really need advice. Im 16 and I dont really find girls attractive. Its really getting me down but whenever I look at porn pics of the neked women it does nothing fro me
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You might just not like porn, not everyone does.
Do you fancy blokes?
You might be gay.
Does gay porn get you going?
I would also add that it is very common to be uncertain of sexuality during your formative years, and it is perfectly normal to sometimes prefer members of your own gender, especially during adolescence.
It kind of did then it didnt and now it disgusts me a bit.
When does the uncertainty end?
Sounds like puberty is having a bit of fun to me.
Do you sometimes fancy lasses and sometimes not?
Like being a bloke then you can relate to other men as they have the same bits as you do.
Women having breasts & a vagina can be quite frightening as it's something totally new.
Dont stress about it, your still you no matter what does or doesnt bring your soldier to attention.
Peace
what, like a runner bean
If you dont fancy anyone in porn, then dont watch porn! If you dont see anyone you fancy in real life, then dont go out with anyone until you do. If it happens to be men, then just accept yourself for who you are, and if its women, thats cool too.
But I remember when I went through a topsy turvy period, I was really worried I might turn out gay. 'Luckily' I didn't. I don't mind homesexuality at all, I would just prefer to be heterosexual. Have a family away in a farm somewhere a few horses and ponies, perhaps a cow, a big orchard, loads and loads of wildflowers, a dog and a cat I guess, and the resident owl who catches voles and mice in the field!
bloody hell rich, surtainly not a city slicker are you?
.matt