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Why is it?
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Why is it that whenever you get your hopes up about something, and it always seems to be going perfect, and everything's great and all that, it all blows up in your face?!
One of my very bestest best friends by the name of Lewin was supposed to be coming to see us this week, we see him like once in a blue moon. I've seen him TWICE in the last year. But now he can't come.
I'm not angry as such, 'cause it's not his fault, but I'm really upset, because I miss him like hell, and I was so looking forward to seeing him for more than the like, 2 hours I saw him for last time. And now, it's just...I really needed to see him. He's kinda like the person that helps me keep things in perspective, and I couldn't live without him now. I really, really needed to talk to him...like properly. And I need a Lewin-hug .
And now I'm all crying and stuff 'cause I miss him so much, and I hate it 'cause I feel like I'm overreacting, and MIH.
Bollocks to it...I cannae explain it right .
Franki-Chicken
One of my very bestest best friends by the name of Lewin was supposed to be coming to see us this week, we see him like once in a blue moon. I've seen him TWICE in the last year. But now he can't come.
I'm not angry as such, 'cause it's not his fault, but I'm really upset, because I miss him like hell, and I was so looking forward to seeing him for more than the like, 2 hours I saw him for last time. And now, it's just...I really needed to see him. He's kinda like the person that helps me keep things in perspective, and I couldn't live without him now. I really, really needed to talk to him...like properly. And I need a Lewin-hug .
And now I'm all crying and stuff 'cause I miss him so much, and I hate it 'cause I feel like I'm overreacting, and MIH.
Bollocks to it...I cannae explain it right .
Franki-Chicken
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i know how it feels, but some day you're gonna bump into lewin or find a 20 quid note and your heart will leap for joy, but for now, just stomach it and think about the good times, you'll get over it.
apart from seeing this guy,do u keep contact with him, i.e. phone,text,email?
SBG
SBG
I live in Essex.
So he's on the opposite side of the country and up a bit.
Far would be the word I'd use...
aww hun, thats stinks! do neither of you drive?? i guess the only thing to do is to try and arrange to see him again soon, but could you not see him for a few days or summat, i dunno, may he could stay at urs/a friends??
SBG
He says he's gonna come down at Christmas...but that's soo far away
To give you an idea of JUST how far we're talking here...I made this: