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is this wrong...
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Is it wrong or mean or whatever to sleep with a guy who is interested in you and tell him that you don't date (which is true) that you aren't really attracted to in any way at all to get something out of it, like personal gain? Like it's just sex. And quite personally, sex is just another passtime for me. Thats how I view it.
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she said that he already knows she's in it just for sex and that she doesn't date
yeah, i think it's wrong... but only because i don't think sex should be like that...
And your different from a hooker how?
(edited to say - I dont actually have any problems with prostitution, just make sure you know what your getting into)
hookers do it for money...
but honestly, that was an asshole thing to say... how come guys can have sex with no feelings attached.. but if girls do it she's called a hooker??
i know PLENTY of women that have sex just to have sex...
i just disagree with it b/c i find sex to be something that shouldn't be taken so lightly...
but that's just me...
If he knows thats how you feel and hes happy, then fine, but its really not fair to use someone if theyre not aware of it.
Its a lot different from a hooker, hookers only do it for the money. Shes doing it for pleasure.
Maybe I'm misreading this then, if its just sex for pleasure then fine, I thought the "personal gain" was something else.
ah, I see what you mean. Well if the `personal gain` is monetary or gifts, then that is prostitution, so thats up to the individual, as long as youre not kidding yourself that its something other than that.
I read `personal gain` to mean personal pleasure. I just thought she was being coy and shy about it.
And I'd rather not be called an arsehole Angel121077, if you dont mind.
I think its fine to have no-strings sex, not mean or anything as long as the other person is in the same boat, which in this case, I don't feel he is, and in time he'll probably want more
Malt Munk xxx
It was just the way you worded it, I misread it, its all my fault, everything is my fault, I'll go away now.
So that would be an honest mistake then.
I would like a full retraction of your 'asshole' suggestion then Angel121077, untill that is done I will hold a deep seated resentment towards you.
awweee, i'm sorry, i apologize for calling you an asshole...
i would've apologized earlier.. but i haven't even been on this thing for like... a whole day.... and so much happens on this site in a day...
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Kind regards, Bong.