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sex for first time with my new bf
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Hiya any tips
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Sorry, but that's alls i can think of tho!
SBG
using r hand on his shaft aand stimulating hs head and the ridge on the underside with ur tong and lips and even humming is sooo much better :thumb:
god im picturing you doing that now, and cant cause youre oh so innocent
Most men do. If you get it right you can stimulate the prostate...
Though for a general rule I agree with J.
Mine dont, he wont let me anywhere near it. He says its to close to his arse for comfort. He probably thinks I'm gonna use the whoops aproach for stimulating his g-spot.:rolleyes: I'm not that mean.
The best way of stimulating it is to put a finger inside his arse, but if you press dopwn on the perineum you can stimulate it too. Makes for very powerful orgasms.
Haha, Road Trip.
"OMG, Stop! Ok, keep doing it!"
Heh.
was you ever like that? or are you cool with girls touching you there? - (if she does sorry i just asking incase you thought i was assuming):D
What? where? How?
When I was, like, 14 I couldn't understand why people would want to play with bottoms, but with matuirity comes knowledge.
The only way to have good sex is to be uninhibited.
Too much information, Aimz! :yuck:
Why is it exactly?
You could dress up in some really nice underwear that should get him going to start off with, then i guess it is about trial and error you are just going to have to see what he likes, massages and blow jobs never seem to fail, oh and don't forget to play with his balls while sucking/tossing him off :thumb:
It's all about having fun, don't do anything you are not comfortable with.
As a man, I can tell you that if any woman follows the above routine with me, it would be a huge turn on. I think you've got the balance right. Personally, I've never slept with anyone, so I wouldn't know much more about this.
I'm kind of with J on this one.
If you are worried about "messing it up" then maybe you are not at the right stage of your relationship with him to be physically intimate- emotional intimacy should come first imo.
As for what to do maybe you could ask the guy in question. He'll know what he'd like a lot better than random people you've met on an internet forum.
Just an idea...