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Silent Treatment
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Does anyone else find that if you give your honest answer to a question but it doesn't agree with the answer your partner was wanting to hear. Then they go off in a huff & don't talk to you?
Say if a woman asked
'Would you like to have children with me?'
& the man said 'maybe' but what the woman was expecting to here was 'yes, lets get cracking on the making babies'
Then she gives you the silent treatment cause the man has supposed done something really wrong. When all the man has done is honestly answer the question the woman asked.
Could it be a case of if you can't handle the potential answers to a question then don't ask it in the first place?
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Say if a woman asked
'Would you like to have children with me?'
& the man said 'maybe' but what the woman was expecting to here was 'yes, lets get cracking on the making babies'
Then she gives you the silent treatment cause the man has supposed done something really wrong. When all the man has done is honestly answer the question the woman asked.
Could it be a case of if you can't handle the potential answers to a question then don't ask it in the first place?
<br><marquee align="center" loop="infinte"><font color="666666">.:</font><font color="ff6600">Crispy</font><font color="666666">:.</font></marquee><br></font>
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not all girls are like that though. im not. its a very immature response to be honest.
same.
if he really hurt me, i'd probably ignore him for a bit, but that's more because i hate confrontation.
sulking just because he didn't tell her he was gonna have her babies THAT INSTANT?
kinda pathetic, and very immature.
whereas when i ask him things he lies anyway
*shudders* urgh babies how many times have i fallen out with people over the marriage/babies debate.
That's what i'm doing now i'm not going to loose sleep over such a tiny weeny little thing. She'll contact me when's she's ready.
yeah that's a good thing, because sometime I find if my girlfriend is sulking about something (like stuff with family or friends) she will say I'm in a mood if I'm quiet, keeping my distance!
It's hard to be cheerful and cracks jokes when someone is just there, arms folded with a face as long as horse
(my gf doesn't look like horse by the way! )