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i don't exactly need advice... i guess i just need to sort of "confess" because i feel guilty...
for some reason, i've been getting soo pissed off at my boyfriend lately!! and it will be for the stupidest reasons.... and i feel so bad because i will snap at him or give him attitude and he goes out of his way just to keep in touch with me.. like he's not allowed to call anyone, but he will be allowed in a month, because of his school rules and he'll call me every night anyways and he'll write me like two letters a week even though they only get 20 minutes of personal time
but then i get pissed off at him like... when he teases me about him flirting with other girls and normally i dont' care about that at all.. in fact i like it.. haha.....and a whole bunch of stupid shit like that.. like if i always have to say "i love you" first.... or when he tells me that i do something similar to my best friend... aka his ex girlfriend... and he'll ask me not to do it anymore even though i've always done it.... and im not normally like this.... it feels like im purposely picking arguments with him.. when that's the last thing i want to do especially because we only get to talk for 20 to 30 minutes... i just feel so bad
blahhh why am i getting so irritated at the stupidest things????
okay... im done 'confessing" thanks for listening.. err... reading
for some reason, i've been getting soo pissed off at my boyfriend lately!! and it will be for the stupidest reasons.... and i feel so bad because i will snap at him or give him attitude and he goes out of his way just to keep in touch with me.. like he's not allowed to call anyone, but he will be allowed in a month, because of his school rules and he'll call me every night anyways and he'll write me like two letters a week even though they only get 20 minutes of personal time
but then i get pissed off at him like... when he teases me about him flirting with other girls and normally i dont' care about that at all.. in fact i like it.. haha.....and a whole bunch of stupid shit like that.. like if i always have to say "i love you" first.... or when he tells me that i do something similar to my best friend... aka his ex girlfriend... and he'll ask me not to do it anymore even though i've always done it.... and im not normally like this.... it feels like im purposely picking arguments with him.. when that's the last thing i want to do especially because we only get to talk for 20 to 30 minutes... i just feel so bad
blahhh why am i getting so irritated at the stupidest things????
okay... im done 'confessing" thanks for listening.. err... reading
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but like i said.. im not normally like this.. and i know im not premenstral... maybe it's just because i miss him so much and it makes me upset and then i take it out on him...
okay.. that was an incredibly ridiculous theory....
my gf certainly seems to give me attitude and get pissed off with me for no apparant reason sometimes. But usually I find out it's just because she's had a bad day, or is stressed out with something...
just pause for a minute when you start feeling pissed off with him, and think about why you are, and if it's actually reasonable to be so...
i think that was some good advice, thanks.
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