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Is she lesbian and does she like me?
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I'm new to this site and posted this problem on another site and nobody responded so HELP me. I met a 50 yr old woman in an exercise class that I taught last fall and we hit it off as friends. I am 26 yrs old. I have always considered myself straight and I was dating men online and every day in class she would ask me the details of the whole dating men online almost like she was very interested in trying this herself. Towards the end of class she asked me to bring in pics of the guys I was meeting and I did and she got really mad and told me that I date guys that look gay and wouldn't talk to me for the rest of the day. She also told me on several occasions that she thought that I was beautiful and had a hard time taking her eyes off of me. When I would ask her about her dating life she would get embarrassed and one time said, "I have this friend who comes over and we eat dinner sometimes." She is very vague about her life, but seems interested in everything about mine. We still keep in touch even though I moved to a different state. I am finding that I am very attracted to her and I can't stop thinking about her.
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Do you have any mutual friends? That way you could maybe find out a little more about her life.
Or invite her round for a meal and afterwards get chatting. Ask her about her life, past, plans, hopes, dreams. Don't make it like an interigation though. Drop in stuff about your life as well. Tell her you kissed a girl once in college or something and found it exciting and see what she says.
sorry i cant be any more helpful
if you like her and are "crazy" about her then its worth the chance of a little embrassment! And honestly if she is gay and is into you then your on to a winner and everybodies happy
Hope you find the answer you want
Make some stronger hints and see what happens.
Well, sounds like you've just got to take a chance, see her on her own one day, and be fairly direct. What's the worst that you think could happen. If you don't take the chance, you won't know. Just be prepared for it all to go wrong, and live with the consequences.