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ineed love badly.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru

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<h1 align="center"><!--mstheme--><font face="Arial, Helvetica" color="#FFCC00"><b><u>Destined To Be Lonely</u></b><!--mstheme--></font></h1>
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<p>Fro the third successive time i'm lonely again without anybody to call my
fiance or girlfriend.  It all started when i was just 18years
old...,"Mavis Acheampong"  was one of the lovely girls on campus
by then and i had her on my side  for the sake of being a sportsman. 
Our love was meant to be cause everything was moving on smoothly and we were the
talk of the day.  </p>
<p style="word-spacing: 0; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0">After graduating
from Kalvary school i went on to Nungua secondary to further my education whiles
she went to Winneba Secondary school a year afterwards. Our love still rocked
cause i often visited her at school just to make sure she's always happy with me
alone.  My greatest moment with her was when i took her out to the trade
fair at La on the 06/03/1999 (seven months to my final exams).  I actually
had the chance to explore her body from A-Z but didn't make love to her cause of
my beliefs at that time (i guess she liked me cause of that promise i made to my
God at that time).  </p>
<p style="word-spacing: 0; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0">Cordilia and Debbie
came to the scene during my search for true love after Mavis had fornicated with
other guys. My love for them only lasted a few months cause they were not much
interested in getting married now cause of what they were hidding from me. For
the next two years i had to live with all the loneliness within meself cause i
had nobody to proudly call my girlfriend or fiance to be precise.  </p>
<p style="word-spacing: 0; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0">So for the past two
year i've been alone and know how it hurts to be in that state of mind just for
the sake that nobody like u at all.  Then one bright when the when my work
was over i visited Uncle sly's place only to find this lovely girl called Jamah.
For the very first time i said to myself 'that is the girl i want to be with'
cause she had the looks, smile, character and most of all was willing to talk
when sly made the move. But the most unfortunate thing was that i could open me
big mouth to say anything at all and i must say it kept on bothering me until i
spoke to Vicky about it who offered to make the first move on my behalf. A week
afterward i was busy chatting to her about me feelings. she sounds so wonderful
on the fone and her beauty i cannot compare to any girl i've ever dated in my
life.<img border="0" src="My%20Pictures/photo1080667596165.jpg" width="600" height="800"></p>
<p style="word-spacing: 0; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0">this should
represent Yvonne till i receive her pic next week!</p>

<p style="word-spacing: 0; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0">I will hate 29/07/04
forever in my life cause that was the day Jamah dumped me for what reasons i
don't know at all but all the same i pray that the good God who created
everything will forgive me when that planned suicide in the next few weeks.killing meself alone.
or months.</p>





  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First of all, suicide isn't the answer. If you feel like you've got nowhere else to turn then contact the samaritans:

    Tel: 020 8394 8300
    Fax: 020 8394 8301


    Secondly, you don't need to find love, it will find you. I have found (and probably most other people you will talk to will agree) that love is something that you stumble upon as a matter of course. Some of my friends that go out just searching for 'the one' are desperately unhappy because they concentrate on what they don't have so much, they never realise what they do have. If you live a happy life without love then it can only enrich your life when it eventually comes to you.

    Maybe try making some female friends who you don't want to start a relationship with, because (from my p.o.v) every girl you've got involved with you've pursued marriage in the long run. Whilst this is a worthwhile aim ultimately, in the short run it's not realistic enough. You just need to chill out a bit and not worry about finding love. Have fun (not neccesarily promiscuous activity, I mean, just going out with friends etc) and enjoy life. Then when it comes it will be natural because you haven't been out looking for it.

    Good luck,

    eta: here are some links you may find helpful

    Scared of singledom
    Mending a broken heart
    Accepting it's over
    Getting over it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Watch the film "high fidelity" or read the book of the same title by nick hornby
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kalvary? Są wy od Polski? Gdzie O?

    That book any good? Wasn't there a film called that?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh there is a book called high fidelity by nick hornby, and they made a film out of it with john cusack.

    both are really hilarious, and you can really relate coz every guy in the world has at sum point thought "im doomed to be rejected".

    its about him basically realising that he isnt...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm such a dummy. You already said, "watch the film", so there must of been a film made :/,
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i thought i wudnt bring that up :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dude just chill. You've actually been with people, which means you're way the fuck ahead of me (and a lot of other folks) in that race. You can't say you've never been completely alone or isolated. You're not destined to be lonely forever, you just have to be patient.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Patience is a virtue.

    Being obsessive isn't.

    Go figure.
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