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he finishes to quickly
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im having a problem with my bf. when we have sex its only for about 5 mins:mad: it really annoys me and i dont no how to go about this problem.
any sujestions
any sujestions
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You could start again after he comes. He will take longer the second time.
If you've not been having sex for long, then it might just be a passing thing.
Or you could be happy that you get five minutes
perhaps you could get him spend time on foreplay, especially on you so at least you will be satisfied.
or like mist said, go again when he's cum.
the extra foreplay ideas are good.....
what about continuing afterwards? so he cums? well dosn't mean the fun is over for you - he can still carry on pleasuring you with other parts of your body, or get some sex toys, and let him pleasure you with those - you are still having sex....
and you never know - whilst all this is going on - he will be ready for more - and it allways last longer the second time!
Good luck - have fun!
How about focusing the foreplay much more on you than on him. And only have him penetrate you when you are on the verge of coming anyway.
when u think he's about to come but ur thumb and index finger on the base of his dick and sqeeze it gently. This will numb the feeling and drop the levl of cum in his dick...keep doing this until your happy!!
There may be some info in this article that could help.
Good luck,
CB
Just let him shoot his load, then insist you go again 2 minutes later!
When its happened to me i make sure we go again otherwise she'll spread rumours saying im crap in bed!!
: )
Hi Sonny,
First of all do not worry, I know it may be hard at the moment.
When I started to be sexual active, by first bf was real crap in bed, or where ver we did it
It was all over and done in 60 secs or les:eek:
One nite was chatting to my big sister and she told me to give him head make him cum, and then get all lovey , cuddle, heavy foreplay, get him hard again, and start over, after practice he was able to go 20 mins:D
So my advice chill, have fun, heavy foreplay, make him cum then start having sex.
Love
Sarah
take it as gospel!!!
Sarah, give me your number!!
: )
o dear:rolleyes:
it scares me that people talk to family about their premature ejaculation problems
i second that, but the person who posted that was female, making it a bit less strange.
I think he was joking..?
wasnt she talking to her sister about her boyfriend? i dont think thats weird, some sisters have strong friendships...
Yes I was talking to my sister, what is wrong in that? I was asking her what I was doing wrong , if anything, and she gave me some tips, sorry but can see nothing wrong in that.
Love
Sarah