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Bonus night! sex with your ex.
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Hello is sex with your ex as a one off a bad idea?
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Just as Groovaybaby says, he's your Ex for a reason.
yes it is - seams a good idea at the time.... but as the others said exs are exs for a reason.... granted - sometimes it can be a good idea, but as a rule of thumb..... NOPE!
Kate1 makes a good point - if you go back for "one last run"...... it doesn't usually end up being just the once....
be warned - playing with you ex can seriously damage your head!
yup. It seems like a good idea, and it's usually great sex. I'm not gonna say don't do it, cos i'm still sleeping with my ex. . but be careful and make sure you are both only wanting sex and not a relationship.
But... well, I appear to still be sleeping with my ex on occasion, so that's a bit hypocritical of me. But it's not really just random sex. Don't sleep with your ex as a one-off and not expect it to affect your emotions at least slightly, and to make things complicated if you have unresolved issues or if one of you feels much more strongly about it than the other.
true, and then it all ends up a mess.. ive been there, not good :no:
Kate's right....i went back for sex with my ex and ended up sleeping with her for almost a year on and off....think long and hard before you do it
in the famous words of Wobble- "Ex's are Ex's for a reason."
Yeah it is sometimes nice to fantasize that once your ex gets naked with you again, he will realize the two fo you were meant to be, well its much more likely that the next morning will be hella akward and things between you both will end up worse instead of better. So when you see your ex out in a social setting and you're contemplating asking them for one more roll in the hay, just for the hell of it, repeat to yourself.....NO SEX WITH THE EX.
(I have numerous books on getting over a break up and why to stay away from ex's.If you need any more advice about why to stay away from ex's please let me know. I'm in the process of getting over my ex and it helps me to help other people with their ex's.) :thumb:
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The reason I say this is because me and my ex had one last night together, that was 20 months ago and we're still doing it.... Pretty impressive too, considering we were only together for 6 months in the first place... :rolleyes:
'cause you're a girl.
totally agree with you there