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First Time Lover gets shock

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I have recently entered into a relationship with someone i met at school and never knew before, i have never felt the way i do about someone like her before. I lost my virginity to her about a week ago and all is coming along well and its very exciting. she is obviously more experienced with sex than i am.
I went away for a few days and asked if i could have some pics of her, when i returned i went to hers and she shows me some pictures she had taken of herself in some very nice 'revealing' poses . I was a little shocked by this and did not know how to take it, but didnt want to offend her. we then went on to hav a bad night of sex where i made her bleed, i felt awful. the next morning something arrived for her in the post which now has me wondering what to think. A rampant rabbit.
I am half thinking, fantastic, a girl willing to do anything. and the other half of me is intimidated by her.
What should i think ?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: First Time Lover gets shock
    Originally posted by marlboro
    I have recently entered into a relationship with someone i met at school and never knew before, i have never felt the way i do about someone like her before. I lost my virginity to her about a week ago and all is coming along well and its very exciting. she is obviously more experienced with sex than i am.
    I went away for a few days and asked if i could have some pics of her, when i returned i went to hers and she shows me some pictures she had taken of herself in some very nice 'revealing' poses . I was a little shocked by this and did not know how to take it, but didnt want to offend her. we then went on to hav a bad night of sex where i made her bleed, i felt awful. the next morning something arrived for her in the post which now has me wondering what to think. A rampant rabbit.
    I am half thinking, fantastic, a girl willing to do anything. and the other half of me is intimidated by her.
    What should i think ?

    That she has enough fondness and trust to be open with you?

    I don't see it as a problem.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You dont have to think anything about it, just take each thing as it comes, dont be put off or shocked or prudish.
    People here will doubtless say something along the lines "dont do anything your not comfortable with its up to you etc"
    Yeah well thats all good but your 19, so enjoy ehat you can and dont dismiss anything she wants to do try. just do it with out seeming prudish youl probably like most of it. (almost anything )
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Iknowyourmum
    "dont do anything your not comfortable with its up to you etc"

    Actually in my experience they seem to say that to the girls but not the boys.

    COME ON! YOUR REPRESENTING ALL THE MEN OF THE LAND! GET THE MEAT OUT AND MAKE HER MOAN!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sir Cum

    COME ON! YOUR REPRESENTING ALL THE MEN OF THE LAND! GET THE MEAT OUT AND MAKE HER MOAN!

    Yeah stop winning and just give her a bloody good seeing to
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: First Time Lover gets shock

    You asked for some photos.. you got them with added extras. So she has a vibrator just means you get to tie her up have super sex with her and when you get to tired to carry on yourself you can use the rabbit on her and make her come over and over and over and over.:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Naw, id just see her as willing to experiment, and you should be very happy! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this happened to me. i went out with this guy who had much the same experience as me but i intimidated him! i'm not sure why.. :chin: but our relationship failed after that!


    you made her bleed..well :/ mistakes happen when you first start sleeping with someone and especially when you're new to sex. it's a learning experience! why don't you think of her rather than being better in bed and having more experience, as someone who can help you learn all the positions and foreplay. you should be seeing it as fun, not like it's a test.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Plus also...Get some more confidence man! Not being funny but if you get the chance watch some porn. The first girl I slept with had already slept with 5 others and thought she was an expert. After a few times she told ME that SHE was intimidated and that she felt she knew nothing compared to me.

    Sex is natural after all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good Stuff

    All good people, i needed a kick up the arse.
    I think i just could'nt believe my luck, shock settled i can't wait to see her tonight.
    :naughty:
    she sent the photos to me in a an email and i realised how lucky i am.
    Cheers guys
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    although be careful ... think i remember hearing about someone who was messing about with a rampant rabbit with his girl friend and some battery acid flew of and landed on his cock. :eek2: :eek: :eek2: :eek:

    probably not a nice experience

    erm...but otherwise well done son, enjoy it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by shatter_proof
    although be careful ... think i remember hearing about someone who was messing about with a rampant rabbit with his girl friend and some battery acid flew of and landed on his cock. :eek2: :eek: :eek2: :eek:

    probably not a nice experience


    Did you read that in the sunday sport or the weekly world news
    or did you just make it up.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey, you're lucky she's so open with you. she must trust u alot, so be happy!!:thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    At least she is open and honest with you mate... just wait till you get round to anal sex, your cock up her chocolate chute, her rabbit in her pussy, and you can feel it all... have fun :thumb: :yum:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Iknowyourmum
    Did you read that in the sunday sport or the weekly world news
    or did you just make it up.

    ?

    Why would i be arsed to make up something like that to post on an internet forum? Why would i be arsed to make it up anyway? Its hardly a thrilling read is it? I'm not likely to get a 5 book deal from penguin publishing am i?

    /shrug as i said i remember hearing it somewhere, i have no idea from who or where - its most likely bullshit, this thread just reminded me of it thats all.

    I'll try and obtain some sources to back up future statements if you like :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You lucky sod! Nobody has trusted me with "revealing" pictures of themselvs. :(
    And as for the vibe, you'll probably get a chance to use it together. :naughty:
    You shouldn't be intimidated by her experience. It's an opportunity to learn. At least you know you can be open with her, and that you're unlikely to say something that will shock her. Enjoy yourself! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The key to great sex is communication.

    Sounds like you have the perfect girl to communicate with.

    Enjoy it, uninhibited sex is da bomb :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What I wanna know is were they digital photos she printed at home or on traditional film that she had to take down to boots to get processed? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    What I wanna know is were they digital photos she printed at home or on traditional film that she had to take down to boots to get processed? :D


    OMG!!! look what Ive done to you ....:(



    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your teenage years should be spent experimenting new things.

    All this is new to you, and you've already said; you don't know what to think. You're lucky to have someone who is experienced and trusts you, atleast then you should be able to talk to each other about problems and overcome them in the best way for both of you.

    As for making her bleed... well, it happens. Just take it steady, and most importantly you have to feel relaxed. Tension definatly doesn't help. Communication is the key.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its All Good people

    :)
    Spent Weekend spoiling my little sex animal and had some serious fun with her, she has opened my eyes. :naughty:
    Life couldnt be better!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Whey!

    Good to hear it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A rampant rabbit.
    I am half thinking, fantastic, a girl willing to do anything. and the other half of me is intimidated by her.
    What should i think?

    Think your self lucky that you didn't ask your missus to buy some sexy undies and then when you see her next she is wareing a catsuit with a bulit in stap-on.

    No it didn't happen to me
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