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First Time Lover gets shock
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I have recently entered into a relationship with someone i met at school and never knew before, i have never felt the way i do about someone like her before. I lost my virginity to her about a week ago and all is coming along well and its very exciting. she is obviously more experienced with sex than i am.
I went away for a few days and asked if i could have some pics of her, when i returned i went to hers and she shows me some pictures she had taken of herself in some very nice 'revealing' poses . I was a little shocked by this and did not know how to take it, but didnt want to offend her. we then went on to hav a bad night of sex where i made her bleed, i felt awful. the next morning something arrived for her in the post which now has me wondering what to think. A rampant rabbit.
I am half thinking, fantastic, a girl willing to do anything. and the other half of me is intimidated by her.
What should i think ?
I went away for a few days and asked if i could have some pics of her, when i returned i went to hers and she shows me some pictures she had taken of herself in some very nice 'revealing' poses . I was a little shocked by this and did not know how to take it, but didnt want to offend her. we then went on to hav a bad night of sex where i made her bleed, i felt awful. the next morning something arrived for her in the post which now has me wondering what to think. A rampant rabbit.
I am half thinking, fantastic, a girl willing to do anything. and the other half of me is intimidated by her.
What should i think ?
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That she has enough fondness and trust to be open with you?
I don't see it as a problem.
People here will doubtless say something along the lines "dont do anything your not comfortable with its up to you etc"
Yeah well thats all good but your 19, so enjoy ehat you can and dont dismiss anything she wants to do try. just do it with out seeming prudish youl probably like most of it. (almost anything )
Actually in my experience they seem to say that to the girls but not the boys.
COME ON! YOUR REPRESENTING ALL THE MEN OF THE LAND! GET THE MEAT OUT AND MAKE HER MOAN!
Yeah stop winning and just give her a bloody good seeing to
You asked for some photos.. you got them with added extras. So she has a vibrator just means you get to tie her up have super sex with her and when you get to tired to carry on yourself you can use the rabbit on her and make her come over and over and over and over.
you made her bleed..well mistakes happen when you first start sleeping with someone and especially when you're new to sex. it's a learning experience! why don't you think of her rather than being better in bed and having more experience, as someone who can help you learn all the positions and foreplay. you should be seeing it as fun, not like it's a test.
Sex is natural after all.
All good people, i needed a kick up the arse.
I think i just could'nt believe my luck, shock settled i can't wait to see her tonight.
she sent the photos to me in a an email and i realised how lucky i am.
Cheers guys
probably not a nice experience
erm...but otherwise well done son, enjoy it
Did you read that in the sunday sport or the weekly world news
or did you just make it up.
?
Why would i be arsed to make up something like that to post on an internet forum? Why would i be arsed to make it up anyway? Its hardly a thrilling read is it? I'm not likely to get a 5 book deal from penguin publishing am i?
/shrug as i said i remember hearing it somewhere, i have no idea from who or where - its most likely bullshit, this thread just reminded me of it thats all.
I'll try and obtain some sources to back up future statements if you like
And as for the vibe, you'll probably get a chance to use it together.
You shouldn't be intimidated by her experience. It's an opportunity to learn. At least you know you can be open with her, and that you're unlikely to say something that will shock her. Enjoy yourself!
Sounds like you have the perfect girl to communicate with.
Enjoy it, uninhibited sex is da bomb :thumb:
OMG!!! look what Ive done to you ....:(
All this is new to you, and you've already said; you don't know what to think. You're lucky to have someone who is experienced and trusts you, atleast then you should be able to talk to each other about problems and overcome them in the best way for both of you.
As for making her bleed... well, it happens. Just take it steady, and most importantly you have to feel relaxed. Tension definatly doesn't help. Communication is the key.
Spent Weekend spoiling my little sex animal and had some serious fun with her, she has opened my eyes.
Life couldnt be better!
Good to hear it.
Think your self lucky that you didn't ask your missus to buy some sexy undies and then when you see her next she is wareing a catsuit with a bulit in stap-on.
No it didn't happen to me