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Bloody Complicated!!!
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Hey,
I need peeps' advice urgently.
There's a girl at work in my office who I fancy the f**k out of, she is gorgeous and seems like a fun girl too.
I was told in the week that she fancies me 2 , and have caught her looking at me a couple of times.
I'm really shy and I dont usually c her about at lunchtime, and I dont wanna go up 2 her desk and start talking 2 her in front of everyone.
And also I have no idea wot 2 say.
I was thinking along the lines of "Hi, i know this is random etc but do u fancy going 4 a drink" or is that too much considering i've never spoken 2 her?
She is apparently very shy as well.
HELP!!!!!!!!!
I need peeps' advice urgently.
There's a girl at work in my office who I fancy the f**k out of, she is gorgeous and seems like a fun girl too.
I was told in the week that she fancies me 2 , and have caught her looking at me a couple of times.
I'm really shy and I dont usually c her about at lunchtime, and I dont wanna go up 2 her desk and start talking 2 her in front of everyone.
And also I have no idea wot 2 say.
I was thinking along the lines of "Hi, i know this is random etc but do u fancy going 4 a drink" or is that too much considering i've never spoken 2 her?
She is apparently very shy as well.
HELP!!!!!!!!!
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This I was told by her friend at work.
Hope that helps bud:D
I always find my system works:
1) talk to her (friendly)
2) flirt with her
3) pull her
got a few other rules aswell if u wanna no u could PM me lol
(hey but I'm only 16, dunno if it will work for you if your a bit older than me )
I dont wanna stand there like a bumbling dick
Try the cheesy old "going for a drink after work" line if you can't think of anything else.
but.....she has a boyfriend, it may be going badly but you could get yourself in a heavy situation.
lol yea this is always the hardest part for me, basically I'd go up to her, say hi, u alrite, then if in an empty silence, just say ure shit at things like this n laugh. It works everytime, it shows ure not big headed or anything, have a sensitive side or shit, n not all "oh i can get ne where wiv women" - ull get respected for it. Just be honest mate, can't emphasise how much easier it is by just being yourself
If she says nothing much say "Fancy going for a drink?" or "Fancy popping down McDs?"