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Just finished :(
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My girl friend finished with me today, it would of been a month 2moro
Its kinda weird, on saturday we was fine being all luvvy duvvy and everything. Then on monday she avoids me and tuesday she says that her feelings aint as strong anymore. She says shes got family problems and exam stress to worry about and wants to stay good friends with me. Also she says that we might be able to get back together after a little while.
I dont know what to think, im soooooooooooooo feeling down though .
Any advice please. thanx
Its kinda weird, on saturday we was fine being all luvvy duvvy and everything. Then on monday she avoids me and tuesday she says that her feelings aint as strong anymore. She says shes got family problems and exam stress to worry about and wants to stay good friends with me. Also she says that we might be able to get back together after a little while.
I dont know what to think, im soooooooooooooo feeling down though .
Any advice please. thanx
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Be the best things for you both even though it doesn't feel like it is at the moment.
Keep your options opened... don't tie yourself to that one girl that you've only been with for like a month.
Good Luck!
XoX Sam XoX
Really it sounds like she using the same words everyone else does when they don't want to hurt someone.
Move on find someone else.
Is there any point in hoping that she will come back? Or shall i just forget it and move on?
Basically what I'm saying is that if there's really something there then its worth hoping for. Do give her some space, and get on with your life- don't cling to it, cos then if it doesn't work out you'd be left like I was- totally desolate, with no back up plan. But it does happen. So if you're crazy about her, give her time, and things might go your way! good luck!
Freyja
Aw.. poor honey...
I know this is not what u want to hear, but your better of with out her!! I've been in this situation bfore, an my b/f had met someone else, and started bein all cold an horrible until i finished it, which was obviously what he wanted! then he tried to come crawlin back, but i never fell for his crap!!
You'll feel like it's the end of the world, but it won't last forever, just go out there an enjoy urself and show her that your fine, an that you don't need her!!!:rolleyes:
Also i asked her if there is a chance that we will get back together, she said maybe. I dont know what this means for now but im not gonna hope for it all then realise nothings happening.
I feel a little better knowing were still gonna be good friends etc but i still feel terrible.
Im gonna see how things go for now, you will more than likely hear from me again when i find out if we are/are not together.
Thanx for the advice though everyone, its nice to see you care for a stranger
Thanx
You really are best not to think about ever getting back together then you cant subject yourself to more hurt if you dont.
Also im sure you will, although it may seem hard to believe right now, find someone else.
You will get there hunny!
Thanx for being so caring.