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Is this the end?
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In the past couple of months, my boyf (of 2 and a half yrs) has been bringing his mates along to everything we do. I got sick of this and told him that if things didnt change then we would end up splitting up. He never seems to take me serious though. I am now at the point that when he wants to do anything with his mates i get really jealous and take it to heart that he doesnt want to spend his time with me. I dont want to carry on like this but i cant bare to imagine a world without him in it.
Everytime i want to go spend time with my mates he will try his best to stop me and nine times out of ten he does because i am so focused on keeping him happy.
But i am not happy and i dont know what to do. Should i take action to show him that i mean it? but i may be unhappy with him but i know id also be unhappy without him!
Help please!:(
Everytime i want to go spend time with my mates he will try his best to stop me and nine times out of ten he does because i am so focused on keeping him happy.
But i am not happy and i dont know what to do. Should i take action to show him that i mean it? but i may be unhappy with him but i know id also be unhappy without him!
Help please!:(
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Best i can say is tell him your sick of been treat the way you are and leave him...and you'll know how he feels by his reaction to it, i was really scared of loosing simon, but he came round thank god, im sure you bf will too.
If you wanna chat PM me or add me:)
Hope things go ok,
Love sarah xxx
I would say it may not be the end yet but it will be soon, and not because he is being unreasonable but because you are!
Having a relationship isn't about always being together, its about accepting eachother and that includes eachothers friends.
and - another thing - you shouldn't let him stop you seeing your friends!