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I'll never understand women...
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Who adore guys that treat them like shit. Anyone care to educate me?
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im a girl, i go for 'bad boys', they treat me bad and i go back for more. i dont understand girls either!
I know i love someone who treats me like dirt....but he used to a really nice guy so i know what he is really like and the way he treats me atm is just an act to stop me from loving him.
If I could delete your post, I would. I'm talking about guys with a reputation for doing this, in situations where girls know exactly what the guy is like. It's not a cycle, some people are not nice people, if you don't like being treated like shit then you don't go with them.
I know! I treat my ex girlfriend like shit, she still loves me and its a year since we went out. I mess her about, am nice to her 1 minute then horrible the next. But she still comes back.
Where as my girlfriend loves me so much cos im so nice!:D :cool:
p.s my girlfriend knows bout me mucking my ex about.
('Cause at the minute i'm making all the moves, and it doesn't seem right somehow).
So erm yeah...
The only thing I'd say is that how "bad" a guy is might not be the be all and end all for some girls. Like, they might have a huge bank balance, or there's that thing when the girl is completely oblivious as to how bad a boy is, because she's all smitten.
So it depends.
Where is the confidence in people who treat others like shit? If anything I'd say that they were insecure.
same here, ive just totally fallen for a bad guy :rolleyes:
Because it keeps things interesting
I need to be treated like a princess hehe so i dont get it!
a bad girl isn't automatically a slapper though
I'm still sort of with a "bad lad", but he is much more affectionate, and considerate. He's such a pet, but he's got a "bad boy" edge which makes him more appealing. Mwuahaha.
He's just delicious because he's got a mean streak, and I like to be kept on my toes, before getting a hug and a kiss.
Mind you, he's not so "bad lad", anymore. He's starting to call me "deary" in his texts. :eek:
:yes: im the same
I'd want someone who was gonna excite me, or do something a bit racey. I wouldn't want some twat who is quiet, shy and someone who couldn't decide where to go for dinner. I want a guy to know what he wants, to have the guts to go out and get it and be spontaneous.
Nice, good guys would bore the hell out of me. I need someone to tell me if I'm being a bitch, or to shut me the hell up *without the use of violence, I might add!*
Nice guys just sit there and say "No your bum doesn't like big in that" or, "Where do YOU want to go for dinner, I don't mind"...
I couldn't hack that!!
Pretty simple really...
Ilora x