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A bit of advice plz
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I'll get straight to the point.
I have fancied the same girl for so long now ( you wouldnt believe how long actually!) Forgetting whats happened in between the beginning and right now ok. I still really like her i cant ephasise that enough but i know deep down shes not interested yet i cant stop my feelings for her, i want my feelings to stop because its hurting me, it hurts knowing shes not interested, but she smiles at me and occasionally says hello, she looks across from her shop sometimes making it look like shes not looking but she is!.. It hurts because feeling unwated is utter crap... I feel like i'll never find someone to love and whom would love me. I cant get her out of my head, i made the decision to try and forget about her but i went into work yesterday and low and behold there she is, with the rare glance over as usual. I cant stand this its killing me inside, No one has any idea, part of me knows i have to forget about her, another part of me, well read this post, its what im going on about i just cant get her out of my head, and to be honest i dont want to, sorry but i dont. Before i go on forever please can someone give me advice on hwo to go about this ?? Has anyone else ever been in this position at all. Ive yet to find someone who understands how i feel or what i mean.
I have fancied the same girl for so long now ( you wouldnt believe how long actually!) Forgetting whats happened in between the beginning and right now ok. I still really like her i cant ephasise that enough but i know deep down shes not interested yet i cant stop my feelings for her, i want my feelings to stop because its hurting me, it hurts knowing shes not interested, but she smiles at me and occasionally says hello, she looks across from her shop sometimes making it look like shes not looking but she is!.. It hurts because feeling unwated is utter crap... I feel like i'll never find someone to love and whom would love me. I cant get her out of my head, i made the decision to try and forget about her but i went into work yesterday and low and behold there she is, with the rare glance over as usual. I cant stand this its killing me inside, No one has any idea, part of me knows i have to forget about her, another part of me, well read this post, its what im going on about i just cant get her out of my head, and to be honest i dont want to, sorry but i dont. Before i go on forever please can someone give me advice on hwo to go about this ?? Has anyone else ever been in this position at all. Ive yet to find someone who understands how i feel or what i mean.
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I think there's some people you just cant get over!
I can sympathise to a point. I remember you posting about that girl before. I can't remember if you've asked her out already or not? If not, then you should do. If you have, and she's still happy to talk with you then there may be an outside chance - but don't get your hopes up.
Anyway, you know you've got to try to stop thinking about her, and keeping your eyes open for other opportunities.
P.s. Writing this reply has brought back some of those old memories. Bah!