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what can i do?
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I seriously think I'm going mad. Last week I broke up with my bf of 9 months because I was really angry over some stupid argument. I've sent him an email, a txt and a letter (i wasn't stalking, i had to go to his house to give him something anyway but he wasn't there) but he won't respond. He knows I think that I've made a mistake and he says he still cares for me then why is he being so cold? I want him back so much and I'm killing myself inside because I know breaking up with him was a mistake. We said we'd be friends but he's just completely blocked me out. WTF is going on? Oh and to top it off, the past three nights I've had really nice dreams about him which just makes the pain of not being with him even more hurtful.
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Id say leave it a few days and then give him a call. But dont keep hassleing him, that might make him get more pissed off with you.
Yeah you have contacted him and it seems like he dont really want to talk about it at the moment, so if you give it a few days and try again just maybe he will reply or at least tell you where you stand.
You said it was a stupid argument but if he thought it was that stupid them im sure he would have contacted you by now. Gawd the stupid arguments Ive had in my time and the next day they are forgotten, so it sound to me as though this stupid argument is not so stupid to him.
Dont beat about the bush just ask him where you do stand, then its leaving the ball in his court.
thats what I reccomend anyway