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Boy and Girl Mates
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This is a rather pointless thread but im going to say it anyway
Some people think its impossible for a boy and girl to be really good mates and nothing else. Thats not true!
Iv been friend with this girl for over a year and a half now, yeh we did used to have a thing going ages ago but now were best friends! We can talk about things comfortably and its a real gift!
So for you people who think its not possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex, get you head checked.
Thanx for reading
Some people think its impossible for a boy and girl to be really good mates and nothing else. Thats not true!
Iv been friend with this girl for over a year and a half now, yeh we did used to have a thing going ages ago but now were best friends! We can talk about things comfortably and its a real gift!
So for you people who think its not possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex, get you head checked.
Thanx for reading
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What im trying to say is, some people think that you cant be friends with the opposite sex because everyone is sexually attracted to eachother. Iv got loads of other girl mates and weve never had anything going on.
maybe something doesn't happen in every close female-male friendship but i bet there's an attraction though from either the bloke or girl.
The people who I have been best mates with, either they've been in love with me (i.e Greg) or we were in a 'relationship' before (i.e Richard, who is now one of the very best friends I have). You can't be really close with someone without either you liking them, them liking you, or something having gone on before.
mind you, neither is anyone else
wanna be BESTEST friends?
:rolleyes:
Oh yeah and that bloody taxi driver in Liverpool the other week... conversation went like this...
HIM: "You single?"
ME: "Yeah"
"Hmm... there are a lot of tasty students here."
"Yeah I know"
"Any luck with any of them?"
"No. I just have lots of female friends at the moment, no girlfriends."
"Nah, there's no such thing as a female friend! You only befriend them if you want to shag them."
Cue forced laugh from me. Its people like him who give us blokes a bad name.
*rant over*
LMAO
Yes, I have a number of girl mates. Including our very own 1983, and we can honestly say that there has never been, never will be and we've never thought about there being an "us".
Except her wet dreams