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I’m gonna die alone because of my Roman nose and downturned eyes
bignosegirly0
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A family member has released wedding photos, and me being me, I look through all of them to see whether I look horrible or okay. The main features that makes me look bad is my Roman nose and downturned eyes. I look horrific with these features, and they’ve practically doomed me to a lonely future where love isn’t an option for me
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I think for a lot of us, we often focus on the features we don't like about ourselves. I know I'm just as guilty for looking at pictures of myself and noticing the flaws/imperfections that I see and don't like about myself, so you definitely are not alone in how you feel.
Whilst it will probably be a mental journey to accept this message, there will be people out there who look at the features of you that you don't like and think it is beautiful and are attracted to it. But whilst looks may play a role in love, they don't last forever and what is key is the person you are on the inside, because that is what truly lets a person fall in love.
And those who make you feel any less for the way you look don't deserve the love you have to offer them. Because whilst it may seem a million miles away sometimes, the right person will love ALL of you, inside and out, and that includes the parts you don't particularly like.
Whilst what you are feeling is completely valid and okay to feel, I want to remind you that you are beautiful and deserving of the love you desire - and fingers crossed it comes around one day for you and is everything you dream it to be.