Text for causal sex

nem

On the app “Instinct” (casual dating app)


I said Hey how are you?


Then he said I’m good and u?


Then I said I’m good, how’s your day been? Also curious what you’re looking for on here?



Then he said It’s been okay so far I suppose and I’m not really sure take things slow see where it leads but I’d be open to talking about like possible other stuff 🤷‍♀️ Wbu?

Then he said



Would I be able to add u on Snapchat or something to talk on there I’m rarely on these sites




What does this mean / how do I reply?


-I don’t wanna talk on Snapchat
-I’d rather chat on the app
-or give him my number
-I don’t wanna give him my snap




I would want a casual sex relationship that is kind of long term
Not a one off hookup

And he seems very uncertain / ambiguous/ unsure
Which is bad
?
/
A turn off




Chat gpt said



I’m not really on Snapchat. I don’t usually give out my number right away either—let’s chat a bit more here first.



Or



Hey 😏 I don’t really do Snapchat, but we can chat here—or I can give you my number. I’m looking for something casual but not just a one-off. How about you—what exactly are you hoping for?






I was thinking option two

Sian321

Hey @nem , it sounds like you're wanting to be thoughtful about this and to choose the phrasing that feels best. You're absolutely right that you shouldn't have to hand out your number or Snapchat if you don't wish to, and you deserve to listen into your own boundaries here.

It sounds like ChatGPT has been a helpful tool for you to find the best way to express this boundary too. How would you feel about replying to him with that second message that Chat has suggested?

nem

Yeah I send the second one