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Text on instinct for a FWB

On the app “instinct” designed for casual sex encounters I have matched with a guy
I texted first
I said
Hey how are you?
He said
I’m good and u?
It is 24hrs later from his text
What do I say next/ how do I reply
My goal is for a long term casual non-exclusive arrangement (fuck buddies/ friends with benefits arrangement) - my ultimate goal being sex most days / almost every day/ having around three partners/ guys I see on a very regular basis for a good sex life to meet my needs which is very high sex drive
Thank you
I’m 23 cis woman
I texted first
I said
Hey how are you?
He said
I’m good and u?
It is 24hrs later from his text
What do I say next/ how do I reply
My goal is for a long term casual non-exclusive arrangement (fuck buddies/ friends with benefits arrangement) - my ultimate goal being sex most days / almost every day/ having around three partners/ guys I see on a very regular basis for a good sex life to meet my needs which is very high sex drive
Thank you
I’m 23 cis woman
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