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(Mentions of sexual abuse) seeking for male approval isnt worth it

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  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 2,339 Boards Champion
    I think as long as we can find some sort of happiness for ourselves in our appearances, it shouldn't matter who's beauty standards we do and don't meet. I know how easy it can be to fall into the thought process of "Oh i wish i looked like this instead" but at the end of the day, we are all meant to be different, and the right people will love and appreciate our personal beauty exactly as we are <3
  • nemnem Posts: 460 Listening Ear
    I’m obsess with men/male gaze…. :///
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  • nemnem Posts: 460 Listening Ear
    It’s hardddd…. Cus like I do like men but yeah u also need a sense of self…. lol
    I’m ok ish
    Lol
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  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    Hey @nem , thank you for your message. You're doing really well to talk about this, and it sounds like you and @bignosegirly0 relate to each other a little bit on this topic.

    What's that been like for you to obsess with the male gaze? I wonder whether this has always been the case, or if there were any moments / any years of your life where that suddenly got more intense?

    We're all here for you!
  • nemnem Posts: 460 Listening Ear
    Been good
  • nemnem Posts: 460 Listening Ear
    Good when it’s good
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  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,654 Community Veteran
    Hey @bignosegirly0 , just to say we have made some edits to your post here as some of your language was sexist and fell outside of our Guidelines.

    We hear the deep hurt and pain underneath your words, however, please refrain from using discriminatory language.
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