failing literally in every aspect of my life

unheardquack

Hello everyone,

Just a lil vent post i guess.

Recently, I bugged out on someone out of anger and as a result the friend group I tried building for so long have all gone somewhat cold towards me. Got kicked out the groupchat without a chance of explaining my perspective.

Havent felt more alone in a while, so I also started using women as emotional comfort (not healthy i know im a piece of shit you dont need to remind me), i said this to my therapist and I made her uncomfortable (she said this explicitly btw).

So im failing with socialising, im failing with therapy and im failing interms of uni. im beyond fucked

slovie

heal yourself first. i may not know exactly what your circumstances are, but right now is the time to work on yourself with maybe the help of your therapist (if you know she specializes in self-help and can understand you fully). if you feel like she isn't a good fit for you, then try to find another that specializes in what YOU need

even connecting with yourself can help loneliness. is there anything or any hobby that you like to do? maybe you can even find new hobbies that you like. this way, you can find more healthier coping mechanisms

once you settle in with your feelings and sort yourself out, see if there's a chance to reconnect with your old friend group. hell, you may even find out that they're not good for you, it takes time and patience, and you have it in you to make that decision yourself

on a side note, i would post vent discussions somewhere other than general chat. it's completely not your fault!! i got kind of confused with the layout at first lol. general chat is more random, maybe even positive discussions

i hope you enjoy it here!! you got this 🫂🫂