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Mum asked me if i wanted to go out on a boat, I said no. Wat is tht feeling? I wasn't like this b4 the new management. I asked a tenant wat the care was 4 n they said business, wats tht mean?. Why does the manager like putting girls in his care home? Isit coz we're easy to control?
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Can I ask whether your mum was asking if you want to go on a boat with her, or maybe it was a boat-trip with your carers?
I hear you, and it sounds like you're noticing a pattern where your manager is purposefully welcoming female residents into the care home. Can I ask, do you feel comfortable / safe around this manager yourself?