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Why current situation

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
edited June 2025 in Health & Wellbeing
Why do I stress wen my current town supposed to b happy. Wat do I do? I h8 creating a burden.
Yesterday a carer brought up the incident wen the management shouted n blamed it on me i didnt react i just walked away from the management tht day. , she read the notes and she must have reversed the roles🤬
Crazy mad insane
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  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    @ellie2000 you don't create a burden. You are who you are, and you deserve to enjoy happiness the same as everybody else. Stress is normal, it's called being human and it's hard to understand why sometimes. And the fear of creating a burden on others is a fear that comes out of having a kind soul. Not wanting others to be negatively impacted out of care for others. That is a kind soul, and is something to be proud of. You aren't a burden at all my friend.

    Could you clarify more about the incident, because management shouldn't be shouting and blaming, and the carer shouldn't be bringing up difficult memories like that.
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab wat does the second part mean? The clarify bit
    Crazy mad insane
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    @ellie2000 sorry if i'm being confusing, just the bit about where you put "she read the notes and she must have reversed the roles"
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab after the incident with the management I ran home without reacting. But yesterday a carer read notes n she told me tht I was in the wrong.
    How do I live day by day without panicking? I draw nd I don't play keyboard anymore
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    Where I go wed n Friday they act nicely. I'm moving with them soon, but it will take a while, y? They got accommodation 😀
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
    I stay out of the way, I play portal all day
    Don't some care companies like the ones who r quiet, I use to point out where they are goin wrong, was tht bad too?
    Crazy mad insane
  • NathanNathan Community Connector Posts: 3,100 Boards Guru
    @ellie2000 Accommodation sounds exciting. My brother once tried it. The places that do that are the best. I'm glad to hear they are nice to you and you've got exciting stuff coming up.

    And you are right. Some care companies do like people who are quiet, some like people who aren't. it varies depending on the place. But you are right yourself to point out where they are making mistakes and doing stuff wrong. There's nothing wrong with that Ellie. It's being helpful, they should appreciate the help.

    Oh, and i used to play portal. You have great choice in games.
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