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stardust444

I don’t think you’ve done nothing wrong at all as this was all before you met your bf! I wouldn’t worry about it, I understand the guilty feeling but you shouldn’t feel like you’ve done something wrong I think it’s good that you’ve both understood each other and hopefully you won’t need to talk about it again?

Sian321

Hey , thank you for your message here. This sounds like an anxiety-inducing situation for you, and I hear just how heavy the guilt has been weighing on you That's a lot to be coping with on your own.

May I ask, how have things been feeling with your boyfriend day-to-day since? How do you tend to feel when you're with him, and then when you're apart?

I agree with @stardust444 that it feels to me that you have not done anything wrong here, though I hear its playing on your conscience. You had every right to go on that coffee date before you met your boyfriend, and also, you are allowed to have control over what you do or do not wish to say.

What do you feel this lingering guilt is about for you? Is that guilt could speak, what do you think it might 'say'? I wonder if there is something specific you're afraid might happen, or maybe more a general feeling?

We're here to listen without judgement, and I hope you can offer yourself some grace and compassion here How have you been taking care of yourself at this time?