I need advice

user123

Hi everyone

I was talking to this guy and basically he would just make sexual comments and I wasn’t interested in that.

My boyfriend now messaged me for the first time the same day I was talking to this other guy and that was the last day me and this other guy communicated. I’m a very loyal person and I want to give my full attention to somebody.

I just feel this sense of guilt that communication took place on the same day with both of them. I feel really worried I haven’t been honest with my boyfriend.

All I said to my boyfriend was that there was this guy who would just make sexual comments etc and I wasn’t interested in it.

I engaged a bit in conversation with this other guy but I never would have done anything further and he knew this.

Have I been dishonest? Do I need to disclose any further details?
I would look like a lunatic to mention this now that it’s already passed and make it seem like a bigger deal than it is which is why I feel like I’m stuck.
Me and my boyfriend are together for 4 months now and this all happened in the summer.
Does anyone have any advice for me please? Thanks

Riley_2001

@user123 Hey. ☺️ Thank you for sharing your current situation with us, I can imagine it’s quite difficult for you. From my understanding and please do correct me if I’m wrong at all, but you and your current boyfriend weren’t together at the time of this communication with the other guy? As you said, you’re also a loyal person and want your now boyfriend to have all your attention. I don’t think you’ve been dishonest as you weren’t together at the time, though you did give a brief mention to what happened, which means you were honest about a conversation with another guy whom made sexual comments.

If you and your current boyfriend are happily together, then I don’t see much reason to mention it again, especially if it’s not causing any problems within your relationship and communication with you both is strong. It’s a lost chapter of someone you weren’t with and engaged in small conversation.

I wish you both a lovely and happy relationship. ☺️