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The meeting

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
in Health & Wellbeing
The meeting is nxt yr. The manager will attend, how do cope with his words? Wat does 'its all about the business mean'? Finally got a move 😀
Crazy mad insane

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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    They called the popo. Wen they no I hav mental heath probs. Will everything b gd? Police like to prey on the vulnerable, what do others think?
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    The managers is a bully anyway
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    ive not had gd experiences with the police especially during mh crisis & when i reported a serious incident to them they were rly horrible. did they tell you why they called police on you? was it bc maybe he was worried abt you? im sry your manager wont leave you alone @ellie2000 you rly should tell someone abt what hes doing to you bc its not acceptable for what hes doing. im here if you need anything ❤️
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    @eylah he did say in the email tht he was concerned about my wellbeing but the things I write n say is without a filter. Is tht reactive a8u5e. Is it my fought? Is he naffed off tht I notice things tht r triggers. No-one has come to talk to me about stuff, y? They avoid. Every gd support workers have gone.
    Wen I'm not gaming I think everything is turmoil.
    I'm supposed to hav support for mental health but they are 🤬 not every cqc rating is up to date, so b careful.
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    I heard they mentioned me in a team meeting too
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    Wen I go in to deep in panic n thinking I can't do stuff I enjoy. I just go to sleep n4 it takes hold. It's gets hold and I panic n start the email rant coz I hav to tell someone how I feel
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    Do SHOUT use WhatsApp or signal bc of msging charges
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    hi @ellie2000 shout only use normal messaging ❤️ calm helpline you can msg them on whatsapp ❤️
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    heres the link: https://www.thecalmzone.net/
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    with shout on their faqs theres a list of phone services they charge for but depending on which you use they have a list ill copy the list for you if you can’t access their website. ❤️
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    hey @ellie2000 i know you was asking abt shout etc and wanted to check in to see how you are bc it sounded like things might of been hard for you here for you always ❤️
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    @eylah I'm at mums now, she contacted a few places. I put a 'away :)' sign on my door. I sed once b4 therapy 'u ruined it' to one of the support workers, by tht I meant all of it.
    I'm worried now, wen I hav the teams meeting they won't behave they'll read out the list to pointscore. The manager did say he was concerned about my wellbeing, but actually he's making it worse. I told the team leader a yr ago tht I hope he gets everything taken away (polite way of putting it) the manager doesn't understand mental health and they employ amateurs instead of experienced ppl.
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    edited December 2024
    Is it my fought tht I react? at where I live wellbeing is kaput 4 all.
    How long do ppl hold a grudge 4, is tht professional?
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    im rly sry to hear this ellie is your mum supporting you with how your manager is reacting? sending you so many hugs 🫂
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    @eylah I love mum. This morning I thought, am I a bad person? Should I get a diagnosis 4 something or am I just frustrated? Why do I see things tht r wrong all the time? Tht Should b done correctly but ---- I raise concerns and ppl get huffy, y?
    Crazy mad insane
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    edited December 2024
    @eylah I sed to the more compassionate manager. 'You're the one who's failing.'Mum says relationships have broken down
    It's bc of I noticed how it is run. I went there bc of my mental health but I noticed its not about tht anymore. It's about them, wats tht mean? They did mess us around abit, messing with emotions. Nd telling us everything was being sorted wen it wasnt.
    I researched the manager too. I wish I didn't think the way I do
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah I love mum. This morning I thought, am I a bad person? Should I get a diagnosis 4 something or am I just frustrated? Why do I see things tht r wrong all the time? Tht Should b done correctly but ---- I raise concerns and ppl get huffy, y?
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah I love mum. This morning I thought, am I a bad person? Should I get a diagnosis 4 something or am I just frustrated? Why do I see things tht r wrong all the time? Tht Should b done correctly but ---- I raise concerns and ppl get huffy, y?

    hey @ellie2000 firstly your not a bad person at all! your dealing with so much rn and that does not make you a bad person at all! im sry to hear you think your a bad person but your rly not! your trying your best every day and that is not bc your a bad person but bc your trying your best every day. im so glad you have your mum around for when ppl choose to pry your weakness and she can be there for you. have you got a dr or psychiatrist who you can talk to abt getting a diagnosis? of course its entirely your choice bc you know yourself better than anyone else ❤️ im always here for you ❤️ if you do want to go forward with a diagnosis id recommend going to your gp to discuss your concerns ❤️
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • briannatbriannat Inactive Posts: 114 The Mix Convert
    edited December 2024
    Hello Ellie <3

    I've read through this thread and wanted to say that you're definitely not a bad person, it just sounds like you share a lot about what you notice and how it's impacting you which is okay!! It's hard to figure out exactly what to do in your situation but it sounds like you're really trying your best. If you do feel like a diagnosis would be helpful then I'd definitely reach out to your psychiatrist or GP to talk about what's been going on for you and what your concerns are. Do you feel like a Diagnosis would be helpful for you?

    I also wonder if you've been able to take a break from all of this to give yourself a bit of a pause and think about what it is you really need. I'm hearing that you don't feel listened to or understood by this manager. You mentioned loving your mum and feeling supported by her, that's really positive and I'm glad you have her in your life <3 How are you now?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    edited December 2024
    @briannat @eylah is management making me think I got a diagnosis out of order?
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    edited December 2024
    I'm gd I got a docs appointment no idea wat about, will everything be gd? The management won't make me blank out at the next meeting? Why do we do tht wen we got too many feelings?
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 5,826 Part of The Furniture
    hi @ellie2000 im glad you got a drs appointment thats great. maybe the appointment has been made bc for a routine checkup? have you asked abt why this has been made? hugs 🫂
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍

    pfp made by @Chloe234 ❤️
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    @eylah the Dr's appointment was for 'safeguarding' wats tht mean?
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  • briannatbriannat Inactive Posts: 114 The Mix Convert
    Hey @ellie2000

    Safeguarding is the term used to explain the process of making sure that you're safe and not at risk of harm. How did the doctor's appointment go?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    @briannat I told the doctor I S.H n wen I do the carers stand back watch. Hopefully the organisation will get a p__nch round the face or a th_ck ear 🤣 which they deserve
    I'm with mum atm 😀
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,517 The Mix Elder
    I'm not a violent person, I just think it bc ppl see my vulnerabilities
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