If delusional care give u a abc

ellie2000

Do u hav to sign anything or they just send it u.
What is proper way on them delivering it. If u move does it go away

eylah

you don’t have to sign anything your not comfortable doing so bc its your choice. sry i dont understand the bit abt moving are you saying it you moved homes? would they stop? have you spoken to anyone abt this bc you matter so much ❤️

ellie2000

@eylah the abc (anti social behaviour contract) just popped up in my inbox. Can I interact with ppl now, go out, do leisure at home? thts why I asked about home based leisure. I would've thought moving once was enough.

Someone told me he breaking the law, is he?
I did tell a deputy manager tht they were a8u$ing me, are they?

eylah

are you safe ellie? bc noone should be abusing you! had the deputy manager made sure your safe from this individual? im not sure what one of those are but you should be able to do anything you want to bc you are your own person. has they said to you abt going out etc? im so sry your going through this your rly cared abt here ❤️

ellie2000

I'm gd I'm goin to mums 4 afew days. We are thinking of elsewhere. We all no he's a bully. I just put nightwish loud on mp3 and ignore everyone. It is a toxic atmosphere wen he's around n wen he's not everything's calm 😀

I'm gd, I got cats at mums. After mums I feel refreshed

eylah

okay thats gd to hear that your going to mums bc your safety matters so much. he doesn’t sound like a nice person at all bc of everything hes done to you in the past. do you have any plans when your going to mums in few days? i hope you can relax and do something nice for yourself bc you deserve it ❤️

Katie

ellie2000 wrote: »

I'm gd I'm goin to mums 4 afew days. We are thinking of elsewhere. We all no he's a bully. I just put nightwish loud on mp3 and ignore everyone. It is a toxic atmosphere wen he's around n wen he's not everything's calm 😀

I'm gd, I got cats at mums. After mums I feel refreshed

Hey @ellie2000 thank you for letting us know you're okay. It's great to hear that going to your mum's help you feel refreshed and that you'll be going there for a few days. Are you able to speak to your mum about your concerns around the anti social behaviour contract? I also think it would be a great idea to keep speaking to your mum about the manager and how he makes you feel. What do you think?

Lovely to hear your mum has cats too! What are their names? I have 2 black cats called Percy and Terrance

I've popped some organisations down below you can reach out to based on what you've shared here. You deserve to have the right support Ellie

The National Youth Advocacy service (NYAS) provide information, advice, advocacy, and legal representation to children and young people up to the age of 25, throughout England and Wales. They are open Monday to Friday from 9am-8pm and Saturday 10am-4pm . You can call them on 0808 808 1001 or email them at help@nyas.net. If you would like to speak with someone about a legal matter relating to an individual, you can contact their legal team on 0151 649 8700 or email legal@nyas.net. You can also go to www.nyas.net for more information.

POhWER provide information, advice, support and advocacy to people who experience disability, vulnerability, distress and social exclusion. All of their services are free, independent and confidential. They also have a set of advocates especially for children and young people, including if you are involved with a mental health unit or CAMHS.To speak to an advisor who can point you in the right direction, you can contact their help hub which is open Monday-Friday 8am-6pm, except bank holidays. Their phone number is 0300 456 2370 or you can send the word 'pohwer' with your name and number to 81025. You can also find the details for how you can email, skype, fax or post to get in touch with them. You can also head to their website which has an easy read and accessibility option at https://www.pohwer.net/

ellie2000

@eylah @Katie the manager hates my mum too. I haven't done anything, the flats tht I'm in supposed to support ppl with mental health problems but they cause them. I think the management is rubbish. I filled my phone with games now so I'm occupied, wen ppl r sh*tty. Me n my family all think the place is toxic. Wen I do email or bring up their mistakes to management they both run off n hide, y?

ellie2000

Wen they do go off. Its all normal, the staff r happy

eylah

so sry theyre so horrible to you ellie you deserve to feel supported you rly do. im so sry your going through such a tough time but remember your so strong bc your here now we are here for you ❤️

eylah

how’re you today ellie? sending you hugs 🫂 ❤️

Sian321

Hey @ellie2000 , thank you so much for these posts and for sharing a bit more about what's been happening. It sounds like things with your manager continue to feel very stressful, and it sounds concerning too to hear that he has been abusing you. You're doing so well to talk about this, Ellie, and we're here to listen and to explore this with you.

You mentioned that someone told you your manager is breaking the law - may I ask who told you this?

It's so positive to hear that your mum has been supporting you, though really difficult when your manager is actively rude to your mum too. In an ideal world, what would you want to happen next in your situation with your manager?

I'll put some further support options down below if helpful:

https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/
https://www.isthisok.org.uk/
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/about-us/contact-us/

If ever you feel unsafe, one option is to dial 999 for emergency support. You can also text 999 following these instructions here: Register your mobile phone with the service before an emergency happens. Simply text ‘Register’ to 999. Wait for the reply so you know you are registered, usually you are asked to confirm that you’d like to register and the original message wasn’t sent by mistake.

Keep us updated, @ellie2000. We care about you

ellie2000

@Sian321 @eylah I've just come back frm my mums n I'm scared sh'less bc ppl mite come down hard bc I sent the manager emails. The following week will b nerve racking, with uneasy feelings. The weekend has been n I feel better about myself I played 'chuchel' on android which was gd 😀 normally I don't Play games coz the feelings of dread comes over. Gd news he can't run far coz he's fat haha

eylah

hi @ellie2000 im so sry ive not replied sooner i didnt seem to get a notification? im sry to hear your rly scared. can i ask what you mean by ppl might come down hard on you? i know i keep asking this but im just wanting you to feel safe in your own home. do you feel safe from these ppl? i think the links @Sian321 recommended would be a gd idea to have a look at bc they might be able to offer guidance on what to do? im here for you always ellie you matter so much ❤️

Sian321

Hey @ellie2000 thanks so much for your update. That sounds extreamly stressful, and it's really positive that you're continuing to open up here.

I very much echo what @eylah has said above here, and want to ask, when you say 'ppl' might come down hard on you, can I ask who you mean by 'ppl'?

It sounds like this situation with your manager has been happening such a long time now and things are escalating, which seems really upsetting and frustrating for you. If helpful, I'll share some options below of organisations that specialise in advocacy, helping people to get their voices heard and their rights respected. How would that sound?

VoiceAbility is an independent charity providing a range of advocacy services. They are there for you regardless of situation, illness or disability. They can support you if are in hospital, if you are detained, if you are in prison, if you need to challenge a decision that has been made about you or if you need help staying safe. They have a helpline which you can contact them on 0300 303 1660, this is open Monday-Friday 9am-5pm, but they are closed bank holidays. Alternatively you can email them at helpline@voiceability.org or visit their website https://www.voiceability.org/.

POhWER provide information, advice, support and advocacy to people who experience disability, vulnerability, distress and social exclusion. All of their services are free, independent and confidential. They also have a set of advocates especially for children and young people, including if you are involved with a mental health unit or CAMHS.To speak to an advisor who can point you in the right direction, you can contact their help hub which is open Monday-Friday 8am-6pm, except bank holidays. Their phone number is 0300 456 2370 or you can send the word 'pohwer' with your name and number to 81025. You can also find the details for how you can email, skype, fax or post to get in touch with them. You can also head to their website which has an easy read and accessibility option at https://www.pohwer.net/

There's an organization called the National Youth Advocacy service (NYAS). They provide information, advice, advocacy, and legal representation to children and young people up to the age of 25, throughout England and Wales. They are open Monday to Friday from 9am-8pm and Saturday 10am-4pm . You can call them on 0808 808 1001 or email them at help@nyas.net. If you would like to speak with someone about a legal matter relating to an individual, you can contact their legal team on 0151 649 8700 or email legal@nyas.net. You can also go to www.nyas.net for more information.

You deserve to have your voice heard, Ellie, and to respected in your home.

Sending hugs,

eylah

hey @ellie2000 just checking in with you and to see if your doing okay? here if you need to talk hope your okay ❤️☺️