Did I mess up?

Hi all last night was my staff party at work and we went on a pub crawl i was sober and one of the girls at work sister was picking her up and offered me a lift home at the same time so we were in the back of the car and she starts making out with me and she put my hand down her top I went along with it bcs I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable or unwanted but I eventually stopped her bcs she was drunk and I didn't want her to wake up in the morning regretting anything but now she won't reply to my messages am I in the wrong?

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Faolan

No you didn’t mess up

She wasn’t able to fully consent and you respected her body & state of mind by stopping. You’re a good man for that. Plus I doubt she had getting funky in the back of her sisters car on her bingo cards for 2024, you definitely did the right thing by stopping 🤣

She’s prob wrecked and nursing a hangover or maybe embarrassed. Give her a few hours and see how it all goes then

Hope you’re feeling ok

Lucy_21

I agree with faollan you did the right thing stopping and respecting her vulnerable position. As they said they are just trying to sort themselves out and after that you can explain just that. That you didn’t want to take advantage or make her feel a certain way in the morning. If she feels you led her on or something say you are sorry that it came across that way but now she is in a clear state of mind can you discuss it. If you really do like each other great see where it goes after a coffee chat or something but I really do think you should clear the air.

Good luck