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edited December 2024 in Health & Wellbeing
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  • shannon_164shannon_164 Posts: 329 The Mix Regular
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  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 172 Helping Hand
    Hey there @shannonxg_

    It feels really frustrating that your class tutor hadn't spoken to you about it in person before speaking to the other people involved. It sounds like she should've gotten all of the facts and understood the situation a bit more before this. And it sounds to me like you was just trying to do the right thing and also get credit for the work you actually did. I've had my fair share of group activities at school and it was always deflating when I was teamed up with others who didn't do any work so I'm right here with you.
    shannonxg_ wrote: »
    i am trying to type an email to my class tutor about it but im so so annoyed about it all with how she has went about it and yeah im so fucking close to dropping out. i don’t even wanna come back anymore. i was already very close to it and now i actually have typed the email to my course coordinator to tell her i won’t be back again, it’s all ready to just hit send and i am so fucking close.
    These are some big feelings and deciding whether to drop out is a pretty big decision to make. I'm sending you hugs <3 Do you have anyone you can talk to about this? I also wonder if this is the first time something like this has happened in your classes or if this is one of many things. Only share what you feel comfortable with though please! Also, did you end up sending the email to your course coordinator Shannon?
    shannonxg_ wrote: »
    update:
    she wants to meet in the library at 1:30pm on monday. i’m so so stressed about it. i haven’t done anything wrong so idk why i am.

    i asked could she do a different time as im meant to be on a zoom call from 1-2pm and she offered 4:10pm over teams with her AND the course coordinator. i just said no. i’m panicking sm about it tho as we agreed on 1:30pm in the library.
    It sounds rather inconvenient she's wanting to meet at a time you already have pre-arranged plans. Do you think you'll still turn up to the meeting in the library with her? Your zoom call was planned before this so I hope you're still able to attend it Shannon. Did she not give you any information beforehand about what the meeting was about? No wonder it's playing on your mind so much, especially as it's currently the weekend.
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  • abbie1235abbie1235 Posts: 25 Boards Initiate
    hey @shannonxg_

    im really sorry to hear this has happened it sounds like a really stressful situation to be in. Its disappointing that you tutor didn't speak to you about it first and understand how you wanted to go about the situation, it sounds like she has betrayed your trust doing that. it can take a lot to speak out when something has happened and you have done so well to do this, I hope the way the situation has been handled doesn't put you off from doing so if something was to happen in the future. its understandable for you to be annoyed and upset about this as it sounds like it has put you in a uncomfortable situation and maybe it would have been better had the tutor kept this anonymous.

    im sorry to hear that this situation has made you not want to go to classes anymore, is there anyone at school/college that you could speak to about this and maybe get some support as it would be a shame for you to miss a course it sounds like you enjoy over this. it sounds like a really stressful time for you at the moment with exams and deadlines approaching, I hope these go well for you but if they don't please remember that your mental health and wellbeing is always more important than grades. It must be really frustrating that people aren't listening to you when you're telling them that you're struggling with the work, this must be so hard. Im wondering if you have anyone around you that you could to about how your feeling for some support, either at college or home?

    I hope things get easier for you and I am always here if you need to chat.
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